GriefHope2024-03-29T02:13:41ZYvonnehttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/Yvonne425http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1591118845?profile=original&width=48&height=48&crop=1%3A1http://griefhope.ning.com/forum/topic/listForContributor?user=2oqfse3732230&feed=yes&xn_auth=noMy Wifetag:griefhope.ning.com,2022-01-01:6407267:Topic:3032662022-01-01T19:05:30.417ZYvonnehttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/Yvonne425
<p>I am so thankful that I found this site. I have found that I am not alone in grief.</p>
<p>My wife passed sept. 4 2021. I miss her so. But I know without a doubt where</p>
<p>she is and that she is not in pain anymore. But my heart hurts and feels at tims empty.</p>
<p>If you are a praying people I would thank you for your prayers and I pray for all of you</p>
<p>Thank you and God Bless</p>
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<p>I am so thankful that I found this site. I have found that I am not alone in grief.</p>
<p>My wife passed sept. 4 2021. I miss her so. But I know without a doubt where</p>
<p>she is and that she is not in pain anymore. But my heart hurts and feels at tims empty.</p>
<p>If you are a praying people I would thank you for your prayers and I pray for all of you</p>
<p>Thank you and God Bless</p>
<p></p> My fathers remarrying 2 months after the loss of my momtag:griefhope.ning.com,2021-12-14:6407267:Topic:2919912021-12-14T05:26:07.058ZYvonnehttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/Yvonne425
I always looked up to their marriage. Now it feels like it was all a lie. I don’t think he was unfaithful but I’m not sure how he can move on so fast. I told him I’m not ready to meet this lady and I wish he would give it time and he says I’m selfish and only care about my own pain. I guess I just need to know if I’m being selfish? It hurts so bad that he’s moving on and wants to introduce the new lady to my kids. Am I overreacting?
I always looked up to their marriage. Now it feels like it was all a lie. I don’t think he was unfaithful but I’m not sure how he can move on so fast. I told him I’m not ready to meet this lady and I wish he would give it time and he says I’m selfish and only care about my own pain. I guess I just need to know if I’m being selfish? It hurts so bad that he’s moving on and wants to introduce the new lady to my kids. Am I overreacting? My thoughts are with you!tag:griefhope.ning.com,2021-12-04:6407267:Topic:2896182021-12-04T15:11:59.698ZYvonnehttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/Yvonne425
<p>I am new here and don't really know how all of this works. First, I would like to extend my condolences to all of you suffering losses. It is really difficlut! Everyday is like a new experience, one day is pretty bad and the next day may be easier. Then it starts all over again.</p>
<p>When there is really noone to talk to who understands loss . . . it is very difficult to even feel sane. It seems like we have no self-control over our emotions. I cry a lot - its been almost two years…</p>
<p>I am new here and don't really know how all of this works. First, I would like to extend my condolences to all of you suffering losses. It is really difficlut! Everyday is like a new experience, one day is pretty bad and the next day may be easier. Then it starts all over again.</p>
<p>When there is really noone to talk to who understands loss . . . it is very difficult to even feel sane. It seems like we have no self-control over our emotions. I cry a lot - its been almost two years and the pain is still very raw. I try to be "normal" around other people but sometimes something will trigger the tears and then I'm in a mess becase I can't stop! Memories pop up at the most inappropriate times. I understand all of that, but I don't know how to control it! I feel sometimes like I'm losing my mind!</p>
<p>I just want to encourage everyone - we are all in the same boat, so to speak . . . hope you can feel my hugs! </p>
<p></p> blow uptag:griefhope.ning.com,2021-12-02:6407267:Topic:2726072021-12-02T00:11:02.500ZYvonnehttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/Yvonne425
<p>I need to watch my maturity level. I just had a terrible blow up in front of my nine year old son. I lost my husband/his father to covid in October. Needless to say I am not in the mood for Christmas, decorating and 'cheer'. And I took that out on him. It isn't fair. And I know words hurt.</p>
<p>I need to watch my maturity level. I just had a terrible blow up in front of my nine year old son. I lost my husband/his father to covid in October. Needless to say I am not in the mood for Christmas, decorating and 'cheer'. And I took that out on him. It isn't fair. And I know words hurt.</p> Where do we go from heretag:griefhope.ning.com,2021-11-29:6407267:Topic:2723892021-11-29T00:34:51.487ZYvonnehttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/Yvonne425
The 28th of October my other half was taken from us me and my 3 kids in his sleep right next to me 33 years old he was are protector are comedian are keep the moment light makes us feel safe correct us when we're wrong superman and now he's gone I walk threw are house seeing his pics and his clothes and I just don't know how we are suppose to have a normal life with him not there I feel broken and lost and numb and I have to hold it together for the kids so I hoping this can help me cope a Lil…
The 28th of October my other half was taken from us me and my 3 kids in his sleep right next to me 33 years old he was are protector are comedian are keep the moment light makes us feel safe correct us when we're wrong superman and now he's gone I walk threw are house seeing his pics and his clothes and I just don't know how we are suppose to have a normal life with him not there I feel broken and lost and numb and I have to hold it together for the kids so I hoping this can help me cope a Lil better I miss my brothertag:griefhope.ning.com,2021-11-21:6407267:Topic:2719312021-11-21T23:47:01.273ZYvonnehttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/Yvonne425
I lost my brother in June. He was my best friend and all I had. Our lives revolves around each other and now I feel so lost. There is nothing to live for and no one to talk to about it. The sound of loneliness is deafening and I can’t stand it. I just want him here. I would do anything for a hug. It feels like no one will ever understand this pain. I don’t know how to be happy anymore. I’d do anything to hold him again.
I lost my brother in June. He was my best friend and all I had. Our lives revolves around each other and now I feel so lost. There is nothing to live for and no one to talk to about it. The sound of loneliness is deafening and I can’t stand it. I just want him here. I would do anything for a hug. It feels like no one will ever understand this pain. I don’t know how to be happy anymore. I’d do anything to hold him again. losttag:griefhope.ning.com,2021-10-10:6407267:Topic:2686822021-10-10T00:08:21.542ZYvonnehttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/Yvonne425
<p>hi I am new here. I lost my husband recently. We were together for 30 years. Times were hard for us and sometimes our relationship wasn't easy either. I miss him and I am not sure how to go on alone. I always thought I was a loner and liked to be alone. Now I am and I am trying to continue living any life I can. I put on a happy face and pretend I am ok but I just don't want to be here any more. I feel there is no purpose for me. I stay home as much as I can. I know there are so many that…</p>
<p>hi I am new here. I lost my husband recently. We were together for 30 years. Times were hard for us and sometimes our relationship wasn't easy either. I miss him and I am not sure how to go on alone. I always thought I was a loner and liked to be alone. Now I am and I am trying to continue living any life I can. I put on a happy face and pretend I am ok but I just don't want to be here any more. I feel there is no purpose for me. I stay home as much as I can. I know there are so many that are going through this too. I just neede to put this out there to say that I am broken. I dont know what to do.</p> A woman I loved(but could not tell her) died two weeks agotag:griefhope.ning.com,2021-09-19:6407267:Topic:2680842021-09-19T01:28:24.673ZYvonnehttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/Yvonne425
<p>I have known people who died in the past:</p>
<p>1. Paternal Grandmother(1973), 59</p>
<p>2. Maternal Grandfather(1976), 63</p>
<p>3. Paternal Grandfather(1991), 81</p>
<p>4. Teacher's Asst.(1992), 24</p>
<p>5. Maternal Great-Uncle(2003), 88</p>
<p>6. Maternal Grandmother(2008), 93</p>
<p>7. Maternal Great-Aunt(2008), 96</p>
<p>8. Woman I loved but couldn't tell her, 52</p>
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<p>Sure, The death of each family member hurt. But they weren't someone un-related, who I loved. The death of…</p>
<p>I have known people who died in the past:</p>
<p>1. Paternal Grandmother(1973), 59</p>
<p>2. Maternal Grandfather(1976), 63</p>
<p>3. Paternal Grandfather(1991), 81</p>
<p>4. Teacher's Asst.(1992), 24</p>
<p>5. Maternal Great-Uncle(2003), 88</p>
<p>6. Maternal Grandmother(2008), 93</p>
<p>7. Maternal Great-Aunt(2008), 96</p>
<p>8. Woman I loved but couldn't tell her, 52</p>
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<p>Sure, The death of each family member hurt. But they weren't someone un-related, who I loved. The death of the woman hurts the most. Because I couldn't tell her how I really felt. She had Bipolar Disorder, and telling her I loved her. Could have caused her to commit suicide. So, I didn't risk it. Now, I wish I had told her. She isn't my first love. But the woman who meant the most.</p> Feeling lost and alone.tag:griefhope.ning.com,2021-09-13:6407267:Topic:2601922021-09-13T11:24:30.742ZYvonnehttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/Yvonne425
<p>I know I'm not alone but I feel it. I lost my dad 2 years ago and then my husband barely a year later. The2 men and people I loved more than anyone are gone and I don't know what to do next</p>
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<p>I know I'm not alone but I feel it. I lost my dad 2 years ago and then my husband barely a year later. The2 men and people I loved more than anyone are gone and I don't know what to do next</p>
<p></p> Wife passed nov 15 2019 still crying in angertag:griefhope.ning.com,2021-09-06:6407267:Topic:2599952021-09-06T03:07:52.802ZYvonnehttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/Yvonne425
My wife passed due to medical conditions aggravated by alcoholism. I have done so much to get past this. However I find myself regularly still crying in anger frustrated at her for passing frustrated at myself for not getting her the appropriate help and frustrated because my now 10yr old daughter is struggling wither her passing more now thank when it happened. Im lost and confused and still angry as I feel my wife mentally gave up.
My wife passed due to medical conditions aggravated by alcoholism. I have done so much to get past this. However I find myself regularly still crying in anger frustrated at her for passing frustrated at myself for not getting her the appropriate help and frustrated because my now 10yr old daughter is struggling wither her passing more now thank when it happened. Im lost and confused and still angry as I feel my wife mentally gave up.