Lost

[Ted Scherff]

I don't know what to say. The grief is terrible. I lost my soul mate and the love of my life 8 days ago. I am lost in sadness and barely able to function. I am alone nearly all the time. I just can not believe this has happened. Words do not work, I think of joining her every day, but she would not want me to that way. 

I am sorry for sounding so pitiful. 

Ted

[Judy Davidson]

Hi Ted,

I'm so sorry for your loss.  Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings.  Communication is key to grief recovery, so you're doing a great thing.  Many members here are experiencing the same thing.  Check out the blog posts on the Home page and from other Members.  The Chat Room tends to have more people there at night.  I pray this site provides Help for Today & Hope for Tomorrow.

God bless and Big Hug,

Judy

Founding GHN member

 

[Lulu]

Hi Ted you dont sound pitiful what you are feeling is normal its something we all go through when we lose our loved one. Its something we face everyday . Dont apologize for your feelings its okay , Its the hardest thing to face but you're not alone we are here to talk with. I hope to see you on chat talking always helps heal some pain.

[Ted Scherff]

I need some help. I think I need to attend a residential grief center of some sort. I am very worried about the future. Does anyone know of a good grief center?

[Lulu]

Hi Ted ! Judy shared this website with me and I was able to find a griefgroup in my area I hope it works for you too.

http://www.griefshare.org/

[heidi bermender]

hi TED

  IAM SO VERY VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS I HOPE THIS GRIEF CKHATROOM HELPS YOU

[Janet Barsamian]

Hi Ted- you do not sound pitiful at all.  You sound like we all do.  The pain is awful.  I am so sorry for your loss.  I know how you are feeling.  My husband (soulmate) passed away last year and my only child 3 months ago.  Sorry to say I have no easy answers to relieve the pain but I know that communicating with others going through the same thing seems to help.  Just knowing you are not alone helps.  There are  usually more members in the chat room in the evening from what I have been able to tell if that helps.  Take care.

[heidi bermender]

hi ted  good to talk to you yesterday I hope I was abl to help some small steps and minute by minute and lots of prayers

[Ted Scherff]

I'm here but not sure I can make it. Some terrible news again today.

Ted

[heidi bermender]

prayers to yu ted and may all the angels in heavon surround yu with peace

[Ted Scherff]

I'll be on griefhope tonight, unless something else unexpected comes up.

ted

[Janet Lea Dupont]

Ted,

I thought I was reading my profile when I read your. I lost my soul mate, the love of my life Oct. 23. Like you, I feel lost and I cry often. One thing we can say and this is what keeps me going. Some people search their whole life for the love we shared and never find it. We are the lucky ones. And btw, you do not sound pitiful. You just lost half of your being,

[heidi bermender]

hi the love of my life my best friend my world my soulmate paseed away at home from esphagas cancer he became bedriedden I layed in bed with him hugging him and telling him ilove him deeply and thanking him for everything he did for me  he was my life he would write  me poetry and 300 cards we were magical together everyday was our anniversary  everyday was valentines day we were two people that shared the same heart we were two people that shared the same heartbeat we did everthing together held hands everday went to slepp hugggin each otherour love was magical I feel so lost now and yearn everyday to be with him each day the tears come it wll be 2 years jan 16 that my love of my life passe