Lost my heart...the love of my life...my husband!

[Stacey Bosworth]

I lost my husband in February of 2014 unexpectedly and we still don't why. The pain is so deep and profound! I don't know how to live without him. I hope to find some comfort here with people who can understand sadly what I am experiencing. I am sorry for all of your loss'.

[Tina Bambi]

Hi Ken. It's understandable that you cant seem to do much of anything. No one can tell you what to do or how to be, that's up to you and in time you will find a way, the best you can. As I've said before god wont put you to it, if he can't get you through it. Just think another day done with is a day closer for you to be with your wife again. For you it's still fresh and you will be feeling all over the place, it's all understandable. Give it time, time is a great healer. My advice about not getting in a rut, I've been there Ken, I know what it's like. How old was your wife, if you don't mind me asking? My husband passed away in a car crash in 2010 at 30 years of age. I was 27 at the time. Even to this day I struggle but nothing I can say or do will ever bring him back and that's the reality of it.

[Ken Harris]

Hi Tina - I am sorry about your loss. I know that had to be so hard. My wife was 58. She had battled ovarian cancer for 8 years, but beginning in January she began to decline. I had never seen anyone I knew die from cancer, and it was horrible. She was the sweetest person I've ever known, and it breaks my heart to think about how much she suffered. Cancer is a terrible thing. Today is our Anniversary. We would have celebrated 19 years today.

Tina Bambi said:

Hi Ken. It's understandable that you cant seem to do much of anything. No one can tell you what to do or how to be, that's up to you and in time you will find a way, the best you can. As I've said before god wont put you to it, if he can't get you through it. Just think another day done with is a day closer for you to be with your wife again. For you it's still fresh and you will be feeling all over the place, it's all understandable. Give it time, time is a great healer. My advice about not getting in a rut, I've been there Ken, I know what it's like. How old was your wife, if you don't mind me asking? My husband passed away in a car crash in 2010 at 30 years of age. I was 27 at the time. Even to this day I struggle but nothing I can say or do will ever bring him back and that's the reality of it.

[Tina Bambi]

Hi Ken.. Sorry for the late reply.. How are you? 

[heidi bermender]

yes Stacey I understand  I to am grieving  for my sweet angel husband who passed from espha gas cancer he was bedridden and I took care of him all by myself with the help of hospice  I layed in bed with him hugging him and telling him I love him and thanking him for everything he didi for me he was m y life my soulmate my world now I feel lost and empty  the pain is enormous  and overwhelming I cry all the time he was the best husband in the world he had a tneder heart and a tender soul we always held hands and said the same thing at the same time  prayers go out to you

[Mary barbieri]

At least you were able to spend time with him. You regret everything you couldn't say or do when they die suddenly.

heidi bermender said:

yes Stacey I understand  I to am grieving  for my sweet angel husband who passed from espha gas cancer he was bedridden and I took care of him all by myself with the help of hospice  I layed in bed with him hugging him and telling him I love him and thanking him for everything he didi for me he was m y life my soulmate my world now I feel lost and empty  the pain is enormous  and overwhelming I cry all the time he was the best husband in the world he had a tneder heart and a tender soul we always held hands and said the same thing at the same time  prayers go out to you

[Ken Harris]

Hi Tina - I have been out of the country, so sorry for not responding sooner. How are you doing? I had to go pick up the death certificates today, which was so difficult. The whole thing seems so unreal at times.

Tina Bambi said:

Hi Ken.. Sorry for the late reply.. How are you? 

[Leslie]

Tina is right.

I lost my husband suddenly in Feb of 2012.

I wish I could tell you all that it gets better.

It does change as we go through the stages of grieve.

Some days are more bearable than others.

I can think more clearly now and I try to stay busy.

There is no right or wrong way to grieve.

If you can put both feet on the floor in the morning, you are superstar in my book.

God Bless you all