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On Tuesday AM, my greatest friend of 10 years and boy friend of 8 months was killed my a hit and run driver.  It has been a difficult couple of days.  I miss him so much, we were compatible in so many ways and I do not know how I am going to ever find happiness again.  We had so many plans for the future and were so deeply in love that was taken from me so suddenly.  And I do not know what esle can do besides cry and mope around.  

There is another part to this which I do not know if I can say it makes me feel better or worst but he survived kidney cancer which left him with renal failure which required dialysis.  I accepted the reality that unless he received a kidney our days together were numbered however he was responding well to treatment.  We made each other happy and I miss him so much.

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Life has a way of making us happy and taking that happiness away. But its never truly gone, he is within you and beside you; his spirit will never leave your side. All the memories in which you have will live forever with him in them. 

  

   It is sad when we lose someone so quick, it is indeed confusing and hard to understand how to handle life afterwards. And with your lover who was also your best friend passing so suddenly. You need to take things day by day, you need to try and pick up your broken pieces. It will be hard, but there are people here who will help, and even reaching out to other friends and family will do you good. 

   I'm greatly sorry for your loss, you should have had more time with him. But always remember dear, he is never truly gone, as long as you remember him. He will live within you. <3 Message me anytime if you need to chat my dear and again I'm sorry for your loss.

I am sorry for your loss and understand what you are going thought I lost my husband of 14 years suddenly on my arms and it is the hardest thing I have to live with every day you are at the thought place to help you

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