Lost

[Ted Scherff]

I don't know what to say. The grief is terrible. I lost my soul mate and the love of my life 8 days ago. I am lost in sadness and barely able to function. I am alone nearly all the time. I just can not believe this has happened. Words do not work, I think of joining her every day, but she would not want me to that way. 

I am sorry for sounding so pitiful. 

Ted

[Ronald Gwyn]

i think thats true,i just find the lone part of a love one passed is to hard to handle alone,i feel better evan bieng out in a store than home alone, Take care & hope we can stay in touch,   your friend Ronnie

[Patti]

It's been three years now since I lost my beautiful husband of 30 years. I feel stuck. It feels like the process has regressed. Alone scared to death and lost. Any suggestions?

[Ted Scherff]

Hi Patti,

I am not qualified to offer specific advice. The general view is that someone who believes they may be "stuck" in grief, should seek professional counseling to help them work through it.

Ted 

[Marcia west]

I lost my husband, brother-in-in law,grandson and father-in law all in the last 1 1/2 years. I was with them all on their journey if that's what people call it. I'm alone a lot. Hard to be around people. My husband was my world. We'd known each other since grade school. It is very lonely without him but I go day to day and try not to look to far into the future because he was my future. I'm sorry for the pain your in and I do understand. You just need to talk to people about her and make sure they remember her like you do. 

[Ted Scherff]

Marcia, I appreciate your reply. Bless you. My wife was my world as well. Two days ago I lost my mother who passed away. I was her care giver. Now, I am totally alone. And, I just miss my wife soooo much. I'm still lost. Again, I appreciate hearing from you.

Sincerely, Ted