Sadness - GriefHope2024-03-28T21:14:04Zhttp://griefhope.ning.com/forum/topics/sadness?commentId=6407267%3AComment%3A179214&x=1&feed=yes&xn_auth=noHi Bob,
Thank you for your re…tag:griefhope.ning.com,2019-09-15:6407267:Comment:1792142019-09-15T14:43:49.730ZRachelhttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/Rachel731
<p>Hi Bob,</p>
<p>Thank you for your reply. It's been 14 months now since my husband's passing. I think about him every day or I should say that the realization that he is no more dawns on me every day. But, I have gotten better and don't wake up with sadness in the mornings. I am doing things that I enjoy like gym, dance classes to keep myself occupied. I am also reaching out to my friends more than before.</p>
<p>I would say things do get easy with time but memories are always there in your…</p>
<p>Hi Bob,</p>
<p>Thank you for your reply. It's been 14 months now since my husband's passing. I think about him every day or I should say that the realization that he is no more dawns on me every day. But, I have gotten better and don't wake up with sadness in the mornings. I am doing things that I enjoy like gym, dance classes to keep myself occupied. I am also reaching out to my friends more than before.</p>
<p>I would say things do get easy with time but memories are always there in your head. It just becomes less painful when the memories come back to us. </p>
<p><br/> <br/> <cite>Bob Wetzel said:</cite></p>
<blockquote cite="http://griefhope.ning.com/forum/topics/sadness?xg_source=msg_com_forum&id=6407267%3ATopic%3A61218&page=2#6407267Comment179020"><div><div class="xg_user_generated">Hi Rachel,<br/> I'm at the 2 year mark in two weeks. The grief is still there and lately many nights I speak with Elizabeth in my dreams, it helps me remember her, but waking up brings the sadness. Everyone told me it would get easier and it has, it will for you too! Grief is the price we pay for love and I'm happy that I had that kind of love in my life. Some people never get to know that. Hang on Rachel!<br/> <br/> Bob</div>
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I'm at the 2 year…tag:griefhope.ning.com,2019-09-12:6407267:Comment:1790202019-09-12T20:47:02.890ZBob Wetzelhttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/BobWetzel
Hi Rachel,<br />
I'm at the 2 year mark in two weeks. The grief is still there and lately many nights I speak with Elizabeth in my dreams, it helps me remember her, but waking up brings the sadness. Everyone told me it would get easier and it has, it will for you too! Grief is the price we pay for love and I'm happy that I had that kind of love in my life. Some people never get to know that. Hang on Rachel!<br />
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Bob
Hi Rachel,<br />
I'm at the 2 year mark in two weeks. The grief is still there and lately many nights I speak with Elizabeth in my dreams, it helps me remember her, but waking up brings the sadness. Everyone told me it would get easier and it has, it will for you too! Grief is the price we pay for love and I'm happy that I had that kind of love in my life. Some people never get to know that. Hang on Rachel!<br />
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Bob Rachel said:
Hi,
I am devas…tag:griefhope.ning.com,2019-09-12:6407267:Comment:1790172019-09-12T20:32:02.459ZHenry Starhttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/HenryStar
<p><br/> <br/> <cite>Rachel said:</cite></p>
<blockquote cite="http://griefhope.ning.com/forum/topics/sadness?page=1&commentId=6407267%3AComment%3A69571&x=1#6407267Comment69571"><div><div class="xg_user_generated"><p>Hi,</p>
<p>I am devastated after losing my husband of 17 years two months ago. Getting through a day is still a struggle for me.</p>
<p>I don't know if i will ever find solace and feel the same way as I was before.</p>
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<p><br/> <br/> <cite>Rachel said:</cite></p>
<blockquote cite="http://griefhope.ning.com/forum/topics/sadness?page=1&commentId=6407267%3AComment%3A69571&x=1#6407267Comment69571"><div><div class="xg_user_generated"><p>Hi,</p>
<p>I am devastated after losing my husband of 17 years two months ago. Getting through a day is still a struggle for me.</p>
<p>I don't know if i will ever find solace and feel the same way as I was before.</p>
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I am devastated after los…tag:griefhope.ning.com,2018-09-25:6407267:Comment:695712018-09-25T22:39:10.863ZRachelhttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/Rachel731
<p>Hi,</p>
<p>I am devastated after losing my husband of 17 years two months ago. Getting through a day is still a struggle for me.</p>
<p>I don't know if i will ever find solace and feel the same way as I was before.</p>
<p>Hi,</p>
<p>I am devastated after losing my husband of 17 years two months ago. Getting through a day is still a struggle for me.</p>
<p>I don't know if i will ever find solace and feel the same way as I was before.</p> Hi !!, So sorry for your loss…tag:griefhope.ning.com,2018-06-26:6407267:Comment:675372018-06-26T18:16:34.908ZYvonnehttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/Yvonne425
Hi !!, So sorry for your loss , I can not imagine your pain . But am here if you need a listening ear ! I do know that its a big scar that never heals . But there is ways to help you during your pain . Please feel free to contact me .
Hi !!, So sorry for your loss , I can not imagine your pain . But am here if you need a listening ear ! I do know that its a big scar that never heals . But there is ways to help you during your pain . Please feel free to contact me . Clarinda,I am so very sorry f…tag:griefhope.ning.com,2018-01-10:6407267:Comment:660242018-01-10T05:38:13.880ZRick Smithhttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/RickSmith
<p>Clarinda,I am so very sorry for your loss. I understand what you are feeling, as I have lost my beautiful Angie 6 weeks ago after 30 years together. We had a very successful business together, were best friends and she was perfectly healthy. I feel as you do, very sad and helpless and at times just pull up the covers and listen to the wind. I think of her smile, tropical vacations together and the love we had and this seems to help. Good Luck to you!</p>
<p><br></br> <br></br> <cite>Clarinda…</cite></p>
<p>Clarinda,I am so very sorry for your loss. I understand what you are feeling, as I have lost my beautiful Angie 6 weeks ago after 30 years together. We had a very successful business together, were best friends and she was perfectly healthy. I feel as you do, very sad and helpless and at times just pull up the covers and listen to the wind. I think of her smile, tropical vacations together and the love we had and this seems to help. Good Luck to you!</p>
<p><br/> <br/> <cite>Clarinda Sprankle said:</cite></p>
<blockquote cite="http://griefhope.ning.com/forum/topics/sadness?page=1&commentId=6407267%3AComment%3A65601&x=1#6407267Comment65601"><div><div class="xg_user_generated"><p>I am still reeling from the impact of my husband's death. It's been 11 weeks today.. I get awake in the morning and can't get up for an hour or more. I just stay in place and cry. How can I get over this?</p>
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</blockquote> I am still reeling from the i…tag:griefhope.ning.com,2017-12-06:6407267:Comment:656012017-12-06T15:17:19.663ZClarinda Spranklehttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/ClarindaSprankle
<p>I am still reeling from the impact of my husband's death. It's been 11 weeks today.. I get awake in the morning and can't get up for an hour or more. I just stay in place and cry. How can I get over this?</p>
<p>I am still reeling from the impact of my husband's death. It's been 11 weeks today.. I get awake in the morning and can't get up for an hour or more. I just stay in place and cry. How can I get over this?</p> I am sorry for your loss, my…tag:griefhope.ning.com,2017-12-04:6407267:Comment:651172017-12-04T06:58:18.547Zlee swopehttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/leeswope
<p>I am sorry for your loss, my wife passed away November 27, this year and I really miss her.</p>
<p>I am sorry for your loss, my wife passed away November 27, this year and I really miss her.</p> My husband died in my arms ea…tag:griefhope.ning.com,2017-11-03:6407267:Comment:645062017-11-03T03:56:05.417ZMary Bakerhttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/MaryBaker
<p>My husband died in my arms early on a Friday morning almost 2 months ago. Now the house is so big and lonely. My Snugglebear who held me at night is gone. My heart goes out to you Kelly. I'm so sorry. I have found some comfort in Psalm 3:3. I'm out at sea but God keeps my head above the waves. God bless you!</p>
<p>My husband died in my arms early on a Friday morning almost 2 months ago. Now the house is so big and lonely. My Snugglebear who held me at night is gone. My heart goes out to you Kelly. I'm so sorry. I have found some comfort in Psalm 3:3. I'm out at sea but God keeps my head above the waves. God bless you!</p> Hi Kelly, I lost my wife of…tag:griefhope.ning.com,2017-11-01:6407267:Comment:643012017-11-01T21:07:25.063ZBob Wetzelhttp://griefhope.ning.com/profile/BobWetzel
<p>Hi Kelly, I lost my wife of 34 years just a month ago. I really don't have words of comfort for you but I do know what you are going through. My wife followed my son who also died unexpectedly 3 years ago. It was a comfort to be going through it together, but now that she is gone too it's so hard just to get through the day. I used to have faith but I'm afraid that is gone as well. A part of who and what I am has died twice now. I am so sorry for you too. Bob</p>
<p>Hi Kelly, I lost my wife of 34 years just a month ago. I really don't have words of comfort for you but I do know what you are going through. My wife followed my son who also died unexpectedly 3 years ago. It was a comfort to be going through it together, but now that she is gone too it's so hard just to get through the day. I used to have faith but I'm afraid that is gone as well. A part of who and what I am has died twice now. I am so sorry for you too. Bob</p>