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Help for today & Hope for tomorrow

 Hello everyone. My name is Diane. I am looking for some helpful advice or words of wisdom,comfort. I really dont know. am so lost ,cant even express myself.In Jan of this year I my son went to be with the Lord. he went to take a nap and he never awoke. He went quickly,quietly,and unexpectly. I never got to say good bye, oo I love you one more time. The corner said he passed from a mycardial myfraction, but all I know is he is gone for now,and I am still on this planet looking for answers  on how to go on from here. So far  I am not doing a very good job at it.I cant sleep, cant eat ,cant let the images go of the death.Im just stuck in this dark pit and dont know what to do next.I feel like a part of my own being,my heart, my soul has been ripped from this body and only the human shell is left standing.The depth of emptiness and pain is just devestating. I thought if I came into this forum wth people who have or are walking in my shoes I could find some comfort some strength to go on. I have no reason or purpose to go on,for as a mother with live for our children,and mine is gone. So where to next? I really dont know. thank you all for reading this post and I hope and pray for each one of usto find healing,peace and some sort of life after our losses. Many blessings to you all. .... Diane.:)

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Diane,

I am so sorry to hear about your son.  I would definately feel the same way if I lost my son, so you have my sincere empathy.  You know your son would want you to be happy and not in pain.  Is it possible for you to miss him, while at the same time trying to take a baby step to find everyday joy in your life?  Just give it some thought.  Communication is key to grief recovery so you're doing a great thing.  Please keep on talking and sharing what you are going through with anyone who will listen.  We have all been in your shoes.  My husband died suddenly in 2004 when our son was 4 years old; that was the inspiration for me starting this site.  My mom went to heaven last year. 

Reach out to other members through the Network, Member Blogs and Forum Chats.  The chat room tends to have more people in it at night.  The Home Page has some good Blog Posts too.  I pray the resources here provide Help for Today & Hope for Tomorrow.  You take good care of yourself.  

God bless,

Judy

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