Hi Robin, I do understand how you are feeling and the difficulty of just trying to get through each day. My husband passed away last spring. And it feels like just yesterday. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him and l am talking to him all the time. Please get back to me, I know what you mean of other peoples the saying u just have to get on with your life, and most of these people have not been in that position that say this. so easier said than done. Hope we can message back forth. I can also call you after we talk for a bit and if we feel comfortable with each other. ! As I have unlimited long distance. Hope to hear from you soon.

Barbara

So glad you got back to me, like you, I am very 

lonely and my friends all have their own families etc. So they don't have time to call or come over (though before my husband passed away they would), l live in Newfoundland, my husband and I moved here 6 years ago. He was born here and I have always loved it here but all our children, grandkids,  and great grandchildren live in Ontario. So I have my place up for sale. I am going to sell it myself. I want to move back to Ontario to be closer to my children. So I have been showing it a lot, so this keeps me busy, but it seems like a struggle, I don't have the energy l use to have since Tom passed away. I have to keep pushing myself. It seems like you married the love of your life? and have been together so long as me. Do you work? Or did you? I know I haven't worked since Tom passed. Are your kids at home and do you have family close to you? I have people coming to look at our place this morning, so I have to get organized here before they show up. So get back to me l I know we are on different time, we are eastern time .It is 9:45am here now. Hope to talk again soon like you l would love to have someone one to talk to, so we may be able to help each other through this very hard time in our lives. Take care. 

Barbara