Help! Lost my dad two months ago

[Christina]

Today I am coming out for help. I recently just lost my dad suddenly he was hit by a car and never came hone. We are big Italian family and we are all having a hard time dealing. We also lost my grandmother 6months ago which is my moms mom so she now lost her husband and mom. With the holidays coming I am so depressed and down and so is my mom. All I keep asking is why this happened? My dad just retired he was the rock to our family and now he is gone what do I do?

[Judy Davidson]

Hi Christina,

I am so sorry to hear about your father.  Thank you for sharing your feelings with us.  Communication is key to grief recovery, so you're doing a great thing.  I remember in the early days after my husband died, everytime I shared my thoughts and feelings, I felt just a tiny bit better.  If you and your mother keep talking about anything and everything, you'll be amazed how much better you feel in time ... www.GriefShare.org lists local groups.

I hope the Blog posts on the Home page and member blogs and discussions are helpful to you.  Feel free to join the chat room as well.  I pray you find Help for Today & Hope for Tomorrow.

SIncerely,

Judy

Founding member  

[dreammoon jo]

SO SORRY CHRISTINA MY DAD DAD DIED IN 2012  HE WZ A ROCK 2 LK U ME MUM IS SO LOW 2 COZ OF XMAS ON WAY

WE HAD LOSS NON STOP I NO MY DADS FAMLY IS SO BIG BUT DID NOT EXSPCT 2 LOSS SO MUCH ON HIS SDE OF FAMLY 

I LOST A DEAR ANTI IN JULY I FEAL SO SAD COZ I WIL NOT GET HER HUGS EVER AGAIN SHE WZ ON MY MUMS SDE SO WE R SO LOW COZ OF LOSS 2

WE WILL NVR GET  A HUG OFF HER HER HUGGS KISS ES MNT SO MUSH 2 ME MUM MY HRF SIS HRF BROT 2 

IM MY DADS ONLY BLOOD MUM DAD HAD ME WN THY WEAR 38

IWISH XMAS I HAD REMOT FEAD MY CAT 1ST THN SKIP XMAS DAY I USD 2 LV XMAS WN MY DAD WZ HEAR 

THN 26TH DEC MY DADS BDAY FEAD MY CAT THN PRESSSKIP THN I WUD NOT BE SO LOW ID STILL BE LOW 

SORRRY IF IM RABLNG OR BEAN 2 MUSH

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