Missing My Mother

[Cody Baker]

I am not sure if this site is for just people that recently lost loved ones.  I lost my Mother back in 2006 and have been hurting over it.  I am not really sure what the best way to deal with it is anymore.  The hardest part is it was just so sudden.  She had what we thought was the flu then we found out it was much worse and she passed a week after we got her in to the hospital.

[Judy Davidson]

Hi Cody,

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother in 2006.  If you don't deal with the grief, it never goes away.   Thank you for sharing your story.  My mother passed away last month, so you have my sincere empathy.  Communication is key to grief recovery so you're doing a great thing.  Please reach out to anyone here on this site as we've all been in your shoes.  You can look into a local grief group through www.GriefShare.org

Reach out to other members through the Network, Member Blogs and Forum Chats.  The chat room tends to have more people in it at night.  The Home Page has some good Blog Posts too.  I pray the resources here provide Help for Today & Hope for Tomorrow.  You take good care of yourself.  BIG hug!

God bless,

Judy

Founding member 

[Cody Baker]

The hard part is when I tell other friends that I know and their answer is "Just get over it". I know those that say that though are mainly the ones that have not gone through such a loss.

[Cindy Shuck]

I lost my mother March 2015. I am sorry to hear of your loss. I can say that the pain is fresh for me. But I know I am not alone and neither are you.