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I lost my beautiful daughter just over 4 yesrs ago. Every day is still so hard and I miss her like crazy. I dont have the answers to how she died im just left with WHY?? I have no closure ; ( feel so angry! Just need someone to talk to who understands how im feeling x

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Hi Marie!  Im sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter!  My daughter passed away a little over a year ago and it is very difficult.  She was a special needs child and was completely dependent on me and her night nurses for all her needs.  My struggle has gotten harder day by day!  I actually had to make the decision to bring her home to pass.  The docs said there wasnt really anything left to do and the 1 thing they wanted to try would only bring on more illnesses.  I am sooo angry and said and I have a lot of questions why too.  I am here if you would like to talk!  Jessica

Marie I am so very sorry and so aware of what you are going through. I lost my daughter, my beautiful Meagan to a drug overdose as well. It will be three years in January she has been gone, buts it's still so raw and real.

I lost my son 7 years ago.  I miss him every single day.  I understand the anger and the pain...

well at revelations 21:3,4 there is a hope for use how he will wipe out every tear from our eye and death will be no more. I know how hard it is to have lost it realy sucks and im so sorry



AD said:

I lost my son 7 years ago.  I miss him every single day.  I understand the anger and the pain...

so sorry to hear that its very sad times this world keeps getting harder and harder and what has helped me is leaning on Jehovah our god for help and his promise of the resurrection at john 5:29 :)

Marie,
I feel your pain. I lost my son on Father's Day of this year and was not given any reasons as to why. I have no idea why he has left and I am angry at the world. I'd be happy to talk to someone like you who understands
I lost my brother aug ,22 I cant function
Anyone los t like me

I am lost everyday without my beautiful daughter!  She was my world for 10 yrs.   It is hard but I know she isnt in pain anymore and she is free to run and play like a child should.  I know she is with me every single day and she is smiling down on me just like your brother is smiling down on you.  Keep your chin up!

john barnett said:

Anyone los t like me

unless a person has lost a child they dont understand i lost a daughter over 20 yrs ago you never get over the loss but have to try to go on in life ive missed mine every day its beyond hurtful

Hi I know what it feels like to not have closure I guess we are human and what to have an answer for everything that happens.  At times we have to accept that we don't have an answer for.  We don't have the power to change what took place even if we have answers.  My son just died at the age of 15 and I see that it has been 4 years since your daughter died and the pain is just as real as if it happened recently.  I have talked to others and they say the same thing.  I know that the loss of our child will be something that we will always live with.  I think that I am supposed to find meaning to my life because I was left behind here without him.  I find that doing nice things for others helps me feel useful in some way like it is not in vein that the Lord has me here.  It does not feel pleasant living with the loss of a child and I continue to tell myself to make the best of life while I am here and I usually say I am stuck on this side rather than where my son is but I have faith that he is in a much happier place than I am and I want to live my life to day in such a way that I will one day see the Lord and all those loved ones that I have lost.  It does feel good to share with others who have gone through the tragic lose of a child because we do understand this type of pain.  I think we will slowly be comforted daily it is a painful process and I know we will never be the same again.  I guess we can only make the rest of our time here count and matter for something besides the pain we carry.

I feel the pain cause I'm going threw this and its the beginning my son pass on may 9 2015 and I don't know why either and it's hurting me everyday cause I don't understand and he was 13 going on 14 I'm July and my heart is shattered in pieces

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