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Mer,
I am SO sorry for your loss and your hurting heart. It is completely understandable how you feel so deeply. Thank you for sharing your feelings; it's the first step toward grief recovery. While everyone's loss and grief experience is unique to them, all members know what you are going through. Please reach out to other members through the Forum, Member blogs and Chat Room. The blog posts on the Home page are helpful too. I pray this site provides Help for Today & Hope for Tomorrow.
God bless,
Judy
Founding member
Mer, It hurts so much to lose a child. I am sorry that your daughter is gone. My 30 year-old son died last February. I understand how much you want to hold onto anything that had to do with your girl and with that time. I've found some relief from this despair by talking with others who have lost children. I'm betting your daughter was also becoming a friend to you. She was old enough to be moving from that dependence of childhood. My son was also a friend and confidant for me and I miss him like crazy. Just know that even though that hurt so much to let go of something physical, like that foil, you somehow felt it was the right thing to do and you had the courage to do it. One small step on this unbelievably painful journey. Sending you an electronic hug from another mother who is walking this path as well.
Haven
I am mew here we lost our daughter to stomach cancer she left us 0n November 19th 2014 she only had 10 months after she found out she had cancer she suffered for the whole 10 months never came home from hospital after she found out doctors said it was awful how fast it progress
hi angel was glad to see your reply wish I was a do not think I will ever see past this as many say
melinda maryott said:
I am mew here we lost our daughter to stomach cancer she left us 0n November 19th 2014 she only had 10 months after she found out she had cancer she suffered for the whole 10 months never came home from hospital after she found out doctors said it was awful how fast it progress
Melinda, I am so sorry that you lost your daughter. You are coming up on an anniversary and that is really tough. I lost my son in February of 2014. He was 30. It seems that without really realizing it I steal myself for specific dates and times related to him and I get unhappy or tense and then remember that I am missing some time or event that was important to him. I'm sure you are feeling those things too. What a shame that she could not come home for a time. You had such a burden for those 10 months, so many ups and downs I expect. Being strong when you are falling apart inside. Your life is utterly changed. You don't get back to "normal"; you get somewhere different. And I'm not sure getting past the loss of a child is something that can even be expected. I hope you can let yourself be wherever you are and know that it is okay. Your journey along this path is unique to you. Electronic hugs from one mom to another.
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