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1st experience of death and don't have any one who cares or understands

I lost my grandma just over a year ago and I've been finding it hard to cope because I feel so alone and I don't have anyone's support. The most painful for me right now is that I tried to reach out to my mum when she finally arranged her funeral a year later when I came down to see her. She got angry with me for bringing her down. Its been a year already and she has to move on for her family because they need her. What makes me most angry, she belittled my grief saying I didn't know her that long 5 yrs or something, she was her mummy and raised and looked after her since she was a little girl. In actual fact my grandma was quite young when she had her and didn't spend much time raising or looking after her. it was my mum's grandma who raised her. She claims that I was selfish, but in actual fact I think she's a heartless bitch.

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Hi Catherine,

I am so sorry to hear about your grandmother.  I'm sorry you feel like you don't have anyone's support, but you have support here.  I think your mom is hurting as bad as you, but just expressing it in different ways.  Communication is key to grief recovery so you're doing a great thing.  Please keep on talking and sharing what you are going through with anyone who will listen.  

Reach out to other members through the Network, Member Blogs and Forum Chats.  The chat room tends to have more people in it at night.  The Home Page has some good Blog Posts too.  I pray the resources here provide Help for Today & Hope for Tomorrow.  You take good care of yourself.  

God bless,

Judy

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