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I lost my 19 year old son on April 9th 2013 I hate living every day without him the pain is so hard

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Hi Missy Lynn,

I am so sorry to hear about your son.  I would definately feel the same way if I lost my son, so you have my sincere empathy.  I'm also sorry that you hate living everyday with the pain.  You know your son would want you to be happy and not in pain.  Is it possible for you to miss him, while at the same time trying to do whatever you can to find everyday joy in your life?  Just give it some thought.  Communication is key to grief recovery so you're doing a great thing.  Please keep on talking and sharing what you are going through with anyone who will listen.  We have all been in your shoes.  

Reach out to other members through the Network, Member Blogs and Forum Chats.  The chat room tends to have more people in it at night.  The Home Page has some good Blog Posts too.  I pray the resources here provide Help for Today & Hope for Tomorrow.  You take good care of yourself.  

God bless,

Judy

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Hi Missy,

I sne dmy sympathy. Please know that there are those of us on this site who care very much about you. 

Sincerely,

Ted

Thanks for your kind words

Missy, I lost my wife of 28 yrs. recently. I am deeply in grief also. One thing that seems to be important is to share. Share with others who are also in grief. It is from my experience with this, that I invite you to share with me, the website, whatever works best for you.

Ted

Im just lost in life now not sure what to do im sorry for your loss ive been hit really hard 1st born grandson on thanksgiving day my son died on my sisters b'day my grandma 2 days later my dad on the 13 of feb and there dog of 15 year s this monday so I hope you understand I just hurt so bad the pain is unreal
I have to say my sons is the hardest but I loved them all with everthing in me my mom is in a wheelchair i dont know if i have the strength for her.

Somehow, The Divine wants us to persevere. I don't have answers. In addition to my loss, I have become the full-time caregiver for my 92 yr. old mother. Everything is a challenge. You have suffered much loss in a short time. I have been thinking about this: what are my values in this life? Are my daily activities aligned with those values? I think about this because I know my loved ones would want me to do so, and just perhaps, by doing so, I am honoring them. 

Missy, if we can be of support to each other during this most difficult time, I invite such. Please feel free to keep in contact.

Sincerely,

Ted

My son died unexpectantly at 26.  Some days I want to die too.  I can't even describe the pain.  I have found myself in the middle of my yard, crying and didn't know how I got there.  I have an empty pit in my stomach.  I miss him.  I miss his smile, his twinkle in his eyes, his calling for no reason.  I pass his bedroom and can't breath.  Everyday I try to put one foot in front of the other and hope someday it feels normal.  I don't ask for pity.  I just want you to know, you are not alone.

Angela, It's hard to know what to say. We, the ones grieving terrible losses suffer so much, there are no words to describe it. I really question going on. I don't see the point in being here with no meaning, no purpose, alone, and suffering day-in and day-out. I can't believe my wife is gone. I suffer, suffer, and suffer more. 

god be with us.

Ted/Mona

I am so sorry for your loss, unless one has been thru it, they can not know what we are going thru. I lost my 20 yr old to suicide on March 15th.I can not seem to get over this, it consumes my every thought.

I am sorry for your loss. I share the pain all to well. Please tell me that somewhere along the line it gets a tad bit easier?? Who am I kidding right? I am just so sorry. I lost my son April 25, 2016. He was 21. I lost him to suicide. I am broken. I wish you peace of mind.

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