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My stepfather was killed

My stepfather and I were close although I only had him for two years. He and I were closer in ways than my real dad. Not only do I miss him but my mother was never happy till they met and now she is robbed and watching her hurt is unbearable. I am struggling and am headed down a reckless path and I am a senior at texas A&M University. i feel like I am so lost and angry with God.

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Permalink Reply by Donna Gonzalez on October 25, 2016 at 12:54pm

Dear Mike,

I am so sorry for the loss of your stepfather. I know that this is one of the hardest things to deal with in our life. Your post is from a few weeks ago however I hope you get my message, it contains very good news.I know you mentioned that you are angry with God. However, I wish to explain to you that he is not the cause of the horrible things that go wrong in our lives.He allows it but he is not the cause. The Bible itself mentions in James 1:13 that " When under trial, let no one say: “I am being tried by God.” For with evil things God cannot be tried, nor does he himself try anyone." As you can see, God does not try any one with wicked things. On the contrary, God also becomes saddened when someone dies. However he gives us a hope that no one can ever provide. The hope of seeing our loved ones again. You and your mother can see him once again and be together forever. This is no fantasy, nor a false promise. This is a real event and it is to take place sooner than later.

I know it is difficult to understand all the pain we are going through and why God allows it. I have attatched a link that will explain precisely that and everything I have talked about today.

https://www.jw.org/en/publications/books/bible-teach/why-does-god-a...

I hope to hear back from you soon and if you ever need someone to talk to I am here,