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Hello to anyone who can listen to me. I'm  a 62yr. old female. I lost my son 6yrs. ago to a motorcycle accident. We were very close. I was a single mother for many yrs. and our  bond was very strong. I still fall into the black hole. If I think about him I fall apart. I wonder all the time what life would be if he were still here. I will never see a wedding or grandchildren. These are profound losses I will never experience. 

Not sure how to stop my pain..

thx Marge

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I sympathize with your grief. My mother categorically forbade me to get on a motorcycle when I was 17-20 years old. I understood her request and refused such a hobby. But I also remember that she never limited me when I wanted to play free slots uk. It seems to me that it was a wise decision on her part.

I don't think there is any stopping it, just ways that you learn to live with it.  I was starting to feel like a loser because a lot of people in chats would say it had been 7 months or 1-2 years or something.  I am going on 4 years and it might as well have been yesterday.  Thank you for sharing, perspective is helpful.

I lost my twin boys 6 years ago this July. I didn't get to hold my babies very long. One died within hours other 3 days later. I still think what they would be doing if they were still her. I know that I didn't have the years with my boys you had with your son but a lot of people ask me why can't I get past it. I tell them once you experience a lost of a child no matter the age it changes you forever. I understand your grief. I have their birth and death date tattoo on my chest near my heart. I have since than had another child my daughter will be 3 in September. However my sons will also always be apart of my soul. Give yourself time to grief, write it down and don't let anyone tell you how to grieve. Prayers to you. 

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