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I'm completely destroyed, she was my whole world and I'll never find anyone to love me like that again because she had a pure heart that God seemed to stop creating long ago, she defined unconditional

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Hi Robert like u I lost my husband not long ago.We will be married for 40 yrs. this July 3rd. As I type this it is with tears in my eyes, which I have most of the time.  He was the LOVE of my life.my friend,and lover and my buddy. And the greastest husband,father and grandfather anyone could ask for. So like u I am looking for some kind of support to help me with this pain in my heart and soul.And hoping one day I can go on.

Barbara Martin

I feel like you ..ripped out my heart ....I miss my beloved wife infinite sweetheart of 27 years....ssssssoooooo much...

1  17  2017...cancer...

Judy is absolutely correct. We can't forget, nor should we. However, we must try to find new joy in our life that we still have. I believe we are still here for a purpose, while our loved ones are on to bigger plans in the next life. If you follow my original post and can relate, you know the complete definition of sorrow and understand. I posted originally in November 2016. I've lost a number of loved ones, my wife being the worst. But I am here now in June of 2017 to say I'm living proof that we can find joy again, even if we feel it is impossible. One day at a time we seek and search out the goodness there is to find in our world. There is goodness and a spirit for all of us that is there to comfort.

I absolutely feel your pain. My Jimmy also had a pure heart. It helps to know that I was so loved and he too was loved. My youngest son is having a difficult time and he asked me if I had gone through the "Mad Stage". I explained to him that I had never had a moment that I was angry with his father alive so it would be extremely hard to be angry with him now that he is gone. 

He was the most beautiful man I have ever known. I know we all have an appointment with God, and this was his time, but I still have a very difficult time understanding why now??

My wife passed on 10 21 17. She was my rock and the arrow to point my way. I miss her so
Hi Bruce so sorry for your lost

I know what you mean. I lost my husband & my soulmate on Sept 8. I never thought I would find anyone to love me until he came along. I hope I can find that kind of gentle love & nurturing again.

Lost my wife of 27 yrs a month and a day ago. There doesnt seem to be a light at the end of the tunnel, a glimmer that seemingly will eventually fade. We try to go on. Work, family, friends...in the end you are all alone.

How long has she been gone?

oh...feeling bad.

Robert I don’t know if you are active in here anymore but your post really struck a cord with me. I lost my soulmate one week ago yesterday, and tomorrow would have been our first anniversary. I am just destroyed and see no light at the end of the tunnel. He was the kindest most understanding man I have ever met. I waited to marry until later in life (I was 41) because I was holding out for the right person. Then to have him ripped away from me after less than a year feels like an unbelievably cruel joke. I know your loss was several years ago but I wanted to know if time has started to heal the wounds at all yet. 

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