How do I become normal again?

[Jb]

Why is it that I dealt with it okay and was strong at first? I'm getting weaker and weaker as time goes on.

Everyone said I was strong and I just did what I had to do, and now, I feel like I can't get my shit together.

I lost my mom, my best friend. I lost me. Where do I find it?

[Judy Davidson]

JB,

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings RE: what you're going through.  I am so sorry for your loss.  I lost my husband 10 years ago and came to realize that I had to get used to the 'new normal.'  Loss of any kind will change your life; like losing a limb.  Eventually one adapts, adjusts, accepts it and learns to cope.  But only in time ...

I do know that communication is key to grief recovery, so it's great therapy to share how you feel.  I pray this site is able to provide Help for Today & Hope for Tomorrow.

GOd bless,

Judy

Founding member 

[Stacy Hinson]

It's a new normal and it takes time (so I hear). Please don't be hard on yourself. Peace be with on this journey. I'm willing to talk anytime.