"Hi Judy ! Thank you. Yes short relationship. I think i written about 40 poems this one was the first one. And your right so many questions un answered and thats what makes things so much harder for me. But am giving it my all to recover fully.
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Ticket 10-60-54
Posted by Lulu on April 22, 2014 at 12:06am 3 Comments 1 Like
Jeff passed away two days after I wrote this poem it was the first of many to come. He was ill from the first day I met him, and he did a great job of hiding his pain from me. I think in his mind it was something that would eventually go away with time. The last weekend we spend together he was weak and I remember feeling darkness around me and complete sadness still the hints didn’t became available until after his death. The following weekend we had dinner plans with friends of mine. When…
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Posted by Lulu on April 15, 2014 at 12:55am 3 Comments 1 Like
April 12th marks the fourth month of the passing of the man I spend a brief time with. It was a wonderful relationship as new relationships usually are. Being with him even if it was a short time was wonderful. And his death turned my life upside down in ways I would have never imagined. All the beautiful…
Why do some people...........?
Posted by Chris Fayne on April 6, 2014 at 8:54pm 5 Comments 1 Like
I know we all wonder why some people tell us to just get over it and move on or everything happens for a reason. In my opinion, those are the 2 worst things you could ever tell someone who has lost someone they love. Here is how I look at it. When you love someone you love them unconditionally. Death is a condition. Just because the person you love dies doesn't mean you no longer feel that same love for them. I am still just as much in love with my fiance as the day she died. That has not…
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Filled with Sadness
Posted by Heather on April 5, 2014 at 2:25pm 5 Comments 0 Likes
A week ago tomorrow I lost the love of my life and the father of our almost 2yr old son. He had been walking in the middle of the night, apparently had fallen in the road and an oncoming car hit him. I'm not sure that this will ever get any easier and what do I say to my innocent child who asks me where's his da-da? Im trying not to replay questions in my head, what if i had called him that night?? What if i had just let him stay here for the night like he wanted?? But thats a hard thing to do!… Continue
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Lulu replied to Twilight Sparkle's discussion RIP CHRIS"I hope you always remember them with good thoughts."
Joanne commented on Lulu's blog post Silver Balloon"What a nice idea! I know when my mom passed in February, my nieces and nephews released balloons the day of her funeral service. It is very symbolic."
Joanne commented on Lulu's blog post Ticket 10-60-54"That is so sad, Lulu. I am so sorry that circumstances prevented you from saying goodbye to Jeff. I am sure that you brought a lot of joy into his last difficult days on earth. Your poem is very beautiful, he must have been very…"
Twilight Sparkle posted a discussionRIP CHRIS
in 2002-2006 I attended Union Catholic High School and in my Junior/Senior year I had became friends with a quite a shy teen; Later I found out that he had a rare bone cancer. On Wednesdays instead of going to my un friendly home room I hung out with Chris in the guidance office when he was able to attend school. Summer 2006 the cancer spread throughout his spine and legs. The cancer progressed to quick and they weren't able to get him back in remission. During the summer I kept checking his…See More
Judy Davidson commented on Lulu's blog post Ticket 10-60-54"Wow - thank you for sharing your story with us Lulu. I'm so sorry that Jeff died when your relationship was so new. It sounds like you deeply cared for one another. The hard part to your recovery is there…"
Lulu posted a blog postTicket 10-60-54
Jeff passed away two days after I wrote this poem it was the first of many to come. He was ill from the first day I met him, and he did a great job of hiding his pain from me. I think in his mind it was something that would eventually go away with time. The last weekend we spend together he was weak and I remember feeling darkness around me and complete sadness still the hints didn’t became available until after his death. The following weekend we had dinner plans with friends of mine. When I…See More
maryellenmcquown left a comment for debby snow"this suggestion by your friend is a good one and i am sorry for your loss "
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RIP CHRIS
Started by Twilight Sparkle. Last reply by Lulu 8 hours ago. 1 Reply 0 Likes
in 2002-2006 I attended Union Catholic High School and in my Junior/Senior year I had became friends with a quite a shy teen; Later I found out that he had a rare bone cancer. On Wednesdays instead…Continue
My Mom
Started by Ruth Belcher. Last reply by Joanne on Tuesday. 11 Replies 0 Likes
Hi everyone. I just joined this site. I lost my Mom last month and I am still a total mess. We lived together and shared just about everything in our lives. She was my best friend and companion. …Continue
Wife blames dad for sons death
Started by Curt. Last reply by Ber M on Saturday. 3 Replies 0 Likes
4 years ago 25 march 2010 we lost our son jagger 2 weeks short of his birthday. 9 April 1995.. Tomorrow he would have been 19 years old. He was 1 of 6 children (4 boys & 2 girls). Loosing Jagger…Continue
Lost my heart...the love of my life...my husband!
Started by Stacey Bosworth. Last reply by Lulu Apr 15. 4 Replies 0 Likes
I lost my husband in February of 2014 unexpectedly and we still don't why. The pain is so deep and profound! I don't know how to live without him. I hope to find some comfort here with people who can…Continue
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