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Ticket 10-60-54

Posted by Lulu on April 22, 2014 at 12:06am 3 Comments

Jeff passed away two days after I wrote this poem it was the first of many to come. He was ill from the first day I met him, and he did a great job of hiding his pain from me. I think in his mind it was something that would eventually go away with time. The last weekend we spend together he was weak and I remember feeling darkness around me and complete sadness still the hints didn’t became available until after his death. The following weekend we had dinner plans with friends of mine. When…

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Silver Balloon

Posted by Lulu on April 15, 2014 at 12:55am 3 Comments

April 12th marks the fourth month of the passing of the man I spend a brief time with. It was a wonderful relationship as new relationships usually are. Being with him even if it was a short time was wonderful. And his death turned my life upside down in ways I would have never imagined. All the beautiful…

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Why do some people...........?

Posted by Chris Fayne on April 6, 2014 at 8:54pm 5 Comments

I know we all wonder why some people tell us to just get over it and move on or everything happens for a reason. In my opinion, those are the 2 worst things you could ever tell someone who has lost someone they love. Here is how I look at it. When you love someone you love them unconditionally. Death is a condition. Just because the person you love dies doesn't mean you no longer feel that same love for them. I am still just as much in love with my fiance as the day she died. That has not…

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Filled with Sadness

Posted by Heather on April 5, 2014 at 2:25pm 5 Comments

A week ago tomorrow I lost the love of my life and the father of our almost 2yr old son. He had been walking in the middle of the night, apparently had fallen in the road and an oncoming car hit him. I'm not sure that this will ever get any easier and what do I say to my innocent child who asks me where's his da-da? Im trying not to replay questions in my head, what if i had called him that night?? What if i had just let him stay here for the night like he wanted?? But thats a hard thing to do!… Continue

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Lulu commented on Lulu's blog post Ticket 10-60-54
"Hi Judy ! Thank you. Yes short relationship. I think i written about 40 poems this one was the first one. And your right so many questions un answered and thats what makes things so much harder for me. But am giving it my all to recover fully. Hi…"
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"What a nice idea!  I know when my mom passed in February, my nieces and nephews released balloons the day of her funeral service.  It is very symbolic."
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Joanne commented on Lulu's blog post Ticket 10-60-54
"That is so sad, Lulu.  I am so sorry that circumstances prevented you from saying goodbye to Jeff.  I am sure that you brought a lot of joy into his last difficult days on earth.  Your poem is very beautiful, he must have been very…"
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RIP CHRIS

in 2002-2006 I attended Union Catholic High School and in my Junior/Senior year I had became friends with a quite a shy teen; Later I found out that he had a rare bone cancer. On Wednesdays instead of going to my un friendly home room I hung out with Chris in the guidance office when he was able to attend school. Summer 2006 the cancer spread throughout his spine and legs. The cancer progressed to quick and they weren't able to get him back in remission. During the summer I kept checking his…See More
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Jeff passed away two days after I wrote this poem it was the first of many to come. He was ill from the first day I met him, and he did a great job of hiding his pain from me. I think in his mind it was something that would eventually go away with time. The last weekend we spend together he was weak and I remember feeling darkness around me and complete sadness still the hints didn’t became available until after his death. The following weekend we had dinner plans with friends of mine. When I…See More
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    RIP CHRIS

    Started by Twilight Sparkle. Last reply by Lulu 8 hours ago. 1 Reply

    in 2002-2006 I attended Union Catholic High School and in my Junior/Senior year I had became friends with a quite a shy teen; Later I found out that he had a rare bone cancer. On Wednesdays instead…Continue

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    Lost my heart...the love of my life...my husband!

    Started by Stacey Bosworth. Last reply by Lulu Apr 15. 4 Replies

    I lost my husband in February of 2014 unexpectedly and we still don't why. The pain is so deep and profound! I don't know how to live without him. I hope to find some comfort here with people who can…Continue

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