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Silver Balloon

Posted by Lulu on April 15, 2014 at 12:55am 2 Comments

April 12th marks the fourth month of the passing of the man I spend a brief time with. It was a wonderful relationship as new relationships usually are. Being with him even if it was a short time was wonderful. And his death turned my life upside down in ways I would have never imagined. All the beautiful…


Why do some people...........?

Posted by Chris Fayne on April 6, 2014 at 8:54pm 5 Comments

I know we all wonder why some people tell us to just get over it and move on or everything happens for a reason. In my opinion, those are the 2 worst things you could ever tell someone who has lost someone they love. Here is how I look at it. When you love someone you love them unconditionally. Death is a condition. Just because the person you love dies doesn't mean you no longer feel that same love for them. I am still just as much in love with my fiance as the day she died. That has not…


Filled with Sadness

Posted by Heather on April 5, 2014 at 2:25pm 5 Comments

A week ago tomorrow I lost the love of my life and the father of our almost 2yr old son. He had been walking in the middle of the night, apparently had fallen in the road and an oncoming car hit him. I'm not sure that this will ever get any easier and what do I say to my innocent child who asks me where's his da-da? Im trying not to replay questions in my head, what if i had called him that night?? What if i had just let him stay here for the night like he wanted?? But thats a hard thing to do!… Continue


Posted by Michele on April 2, 2014 at 4:47pm 6 Comments

Hi All,

I joined this site a long time ago but have been inactive with it.  In five days it will be the first anniversary of my husband's death (Tom - who else?) at barely age 66.  I'm in a really awful place right now - he suffered so much with pancreatic cancer - I was his full time caregiver.  This August will be our 40th wedding anniversary.  Right now I'm not coping well.  It has been a year of MISERY and…



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    Wife blames dad for sons death

    Started by Curt. Last reply by Ber M yesterday. 3 Replies

    4 years ago 25 march 2010 we lost our son jagger 2 weeks short of his birthday. 9 April 1995.. Tomorrow he would have been 19 years old. He was 1 of 6 children (4 boys & 2 girls). Loosing Jagger…Continue

    My Mom

    Started by Ruth Belcher. Last reply by Dee on Wednesday. 7 Replies

    Hi everyone.  I just joined this site.  I lost my Mom last month and I am still a total mess.  We lived together and shared just about everything in our lives.  She was my best friend and companion. …Continue

    Lost my heart...the love of my husband!

    Started by Stacey Bosworth. Last reply by Lulu on Tuesday. 4 Replies

    I lost my husband in February of 2014 unexpectedly and we still don't why. The pain is so deep and profound! I don't know how to live without him. I hope to find some comfort here with people who can…Continue

    My wife was my life

    Started by Shon Fults. Last reply by Jim Hancock Apr 9. 2 Replies

    So it's been a lil over a year now since my wife died of mixed drug toxicity. She was 32. I never thought that I'd love and depend on someone so much. My life sucks now! I just think and think about…Continue


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