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First Mother's Day without my mom.

Celebrated mother's day today with my husband's family. His mother, aunt, and grandmother all present. While I feel loved and welcome, I can't help but to shake the overwhelming feeling of loneliness after losing my mother late last summer ...and my grandmother 2 weeks after. In the last two years I've lost both of my parents and my two grandmothers (grandfather's have been passed for a while now). I felt I was able to grieve easily for my grandfather's because I had the support of my family.… Continue

Added by Dianna on May 13, 2019 at 4:36am — No Comments

please help

I am scared to death of everything after death of husband.  

wat to do?

Added by Clarinda Sprankle on May 4, 2019 at 9:11am — No Comments

Lost my wife

I lost my wife one week ago today

Added by John on April 13, 2019 at 10:02am — 1 Comment

my sons birthday today

Hi everyone. I just wanted to share that todday was my sons bithday. Hes been gone for 3 years now, and I was dreading this day, but I made it through  okay, better than the last two years. I think it is because of all of you . You give me strenght and courage to face each day with grace . I thank you  for being my support system as I have no family left .  I love you all very much, and you seem like family. Ive reached out to many of you and you freely reached back to me. That says a lot…

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Added by Regina Diana Reed on March 27, 2019 at 7:19pm — No Comments

I can't seem to move on. Everyone else has.

2 years ago in February 12th I went into preterm labor with my daughter Aisha. I was turned away by my doctor 3 times for 3 days. By the time I sit help elsewhere it was too late... i live with that guilt every day. Since then everyone else has moved on but i'm still grieving. It never seems to get any better or any easier. I just can't seem to move on. I hide that fact from everyone I know. My husband hates to talk about it or listen to me cry...(I think because it makes him hurt) and my… Continue

Added by Emmy on March 25, 2019 at 10:35pm — 2 Comments

3 yer anniversery of my son s passing.

this has been 3 years since my only child, my son has passed away. on the 27th will be his birthday. I cant tell you how after 3 years Im still just as lost and empty inside as the day he passed. I have had many people tell me to write him a letter but cant seem to do it without  a thousands of tears flowing down my cheeks.I know one day we will be together once again, but sometimes I wish it was already here. :)I keep trying to hold onto my faith, and not look back, but it is so very hard.…

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Added by Regina Diana Reed on March 11, 2019 at 7:58am — No Comments

3 yer anniversery of my son s passing.

this has been 3 years since my only child, my son has passed away. on the 27th will be his birthday. I cant tell you how after 3 years Im still just as lost and empty inside as the day he passed. I have had many people tell me to write him a letter but cant seem to do it without  a thousands of tears flowing down my cheeks.I know one day we will be together once again, but sometimes I wish it was already here. :)I keep trying to hold onto my faith, and not look back, but it is so very hard.…

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Added by Regina Diana Reed on March 11, 2019 at 7:58am — No Comments

Mommy's baby girl

I lost my baby girl on may 17,2018 at 5. 1/2 months pregnant due to unknown reasons because I was so far along I had to give birth to her and if that isn't bad enough then lay her to rest. I know she is in a better place but she was still my little girl. My family dose not understand anything I am going through and tells me to get over her there is nothing I can do about it she is already go e but not one person in my family has had to give birth to there child knowing they where dead when you… Continue

Added by Kayla on February 3, 2019 at 1:13am — No Comments

3 yer anniversery of my son s passing.

hello everyone. It will be 3 years on the 26th of jan that  the Lord took my son to paridise. I stillhave this daily battle within myself. some days are tolerable and them most are unbearable. I still struggle to find that light , which is his spirit.I think when your child is taken so unexpectly and so quickly, you dont have a moment to say I love you, or good bye. or Im so proud of you . You just walk around in this universe feeling guilty and that you werent a good enough mother,.I am…

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Added by Regina Diana Reed on January 23, 2019 at 5:12am — No Comments

Unable to cope with death of a child I grew up with

Hello, I am here to find someone I can talk to about this. A 16 year old child I grew up with and who I looked like a younger brother passed away a week ago. I can't start healing because I can't accept it. I just cant get over a fact that his life ended at the age of 16. I see posters all over the town with his name and photos. The buildings in my area have his grafitti all over them Because he was an artist. I can't get over that he is gone. A 16 year old child died and I can't accept it. I… Continue

Added by Emma on December 3, 2018 at 3:52pm — No Comments

on June 29th 2003 my life changed forever my dad died from a heart attack, my mom had a really hard time with that she was alcoholic and it just was bad, move out had my first son at 20 and 2 years l…

on June 29th 2003 my life changed forever my dad died from a heart attack, my mom had a really hard time with that she was alcoholic and it just was bad, move out had my first son at 20 and 2 years later a second son. they are my life. me and my mom fought alot over the years I learned to deal with and come around at the right time, I also had a brother is was about 6 1/2 years younger super close with my husband and boys. On March 6 2014 my committed suicide and my brother found her it was…

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Added by nic on November 26, 2018 at 6:24pm — No Comments

He was 5 months when he died

Its been 3 weeks. My son died on the morning of the 26th of October 2018, 5 months. I'm fed up with this feeling of loss. I can't stop blaming myself for having lost him. I woke up one morning and put him between my bed and the baby bay and went downstairs to sleep. I hadn't slept in many months, since the husband left the house and did not support me enough with the baby. I was left as a single mom and the job was very hard on me. I went downstairs for an hour to come back "re-energised"…

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Added by Ahyskel on November 15, 2018 at 12:14am — No Comments

My Brothers Day

On October 14th 2012 Something happen that changed my life forever well changed my family life forever. For along time my brother battled with a long standing drug addiction being in and out of rehabs living from house to house she struggled to stay sober with everything he had to deal with.

He was one of those peoples you meet them one time and your life is changed forever he had a way with people that not a lot of people have I know that he wouldn't want me to be sad but you know…

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Added by lauren Hope Searcy on September 26, 2018 at 11:45am — 1 Comment

Mother's Love

On my kindergarten report card my teacher stated that I loved to "mother" the other students.  Being a mother was the best part of my life and still is, okay I really like being a grandmother as well.   My son was born when I was 17 years old, so in a way we grew up together.  He was such a wonderful loving little boy.  When I had my 2nd child, he told me she was also his baby.  He took such good care of her and was a loving brother with a special bond between them.  When he became an adult,…

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Added by Dawn A Bailey on September 17, 2018 at 2:59pm — 1 Comment

Putting the MEMORIAL back in Memorial Day

Happy Memorial Day!

For those who have lost a loved one in the military, I hope this article is helpful to you:

https://whatsyourgrief.com/memorial-day/

BIG HUG!

Judy

Added by Judy Davidson on May 27, 2018 at 10:49pm — 1 Comment

How do.i deal?

At my 9 week 2 day ultrasound november 30th i was told my.baby had no heartbeat...i was so excited to start my life with my baby....the father left from the beginning ..ive sunk.into a depression...i feel so frustrated because i know they wont be here on my due date...july 3rd...its coming too fast i dont know how to deal with it

Added by Hayley on April 1, 2018 at 2:01pm — 3 Comments

19 days

It's been 19 days since you last looked at me. It's been 19 days since you spoke to me. 19 days. It feels like yesterday but nope I counted it's been 19days since I lost you. You told me it would be 3 and a half months but it was only 19 days. 21 days is how long you got and 19 days ago you left. I hate this. I just want to talk to you and to see you and to hear your voice again. Every time I go to dads I think about you. It makes me sad. I feel like shit for feeling like shit. I'm tired of… Continue

Added by Chelsea Marie on September 26, 2017 at 12:19am — No Comments

dad

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ths is for u coz fr me it isundefined

coz it a lng way it is

pls dnt jug me i need 2 cry bt if i cry im word ill cr till 20120 or fill sea or so on  i no i nead clen my oles i do bt thys yrs bean a ortn 1 mom bean ill y slf bean b 2 gud iv neglet…

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Added by dreammoon jo on August 6, 2017 at 3:50pm — No Comments

Anybody want to talk? Share what you're going through? If you've found a way to cope (or start a process of healing), do you want to share?

Of course I want to talk about how my princess meant the world to me, about how my 4 month old angel, literally became an angel...but, the truth of the fact is this, I have been able to help those around me cope with the passing of my child, but I have not; I have been wearing a mask to ensure a happiness for those around me. What are you dealing with? What are you thinking? Let's talk.

Added by Jay on August 6, 2017 at 12:23am — 3 Comments

i hate myself

We lost you on a saturday morning 9 years ago and it still feels like it just happened. The only son I will ever have and i cant see your face and hold you anymore. My mind still replays to that day when everything seemed alright and then we noticed that you didnt act normal so we called 911 and suddenly your dad began CPR and in the blink of an eye you were gone. In our arms you stopped breathing and we were forced say the words YOU'RE DEAD. Worst day of my life…

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Added by Jennifer on July 26, 2017 at 12:43pm — No Comments

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