On October 14th 2012 Something happen that changed my life forever well changed my family life forever. For along time my brother battled with a long standing drug addiction being in and out of rehabs living from house to house she struggled to stay sober with everything he had to deal with.

He was one of those peoples you meet them one time and your life is changed forever he had a way with people that not a lot of people have I know that he wouldn't want me to be sad but you know…

On my kindergarten report card my teacher stated that I loved to "mother" the other students.  Being a mother was the best part of my life and still is, okay I really like being a grandmother as well.   My son was born when I was 17 years old, so in a way we grew up together.  He was such a wonderful loving little boy.  When I had my 2nd child, he told me she was also his baby.  He took such good care of her and was a loving brother with a special bond between them.  When he became an adult,…

Happy Memorial Day!

For those who have lost a loved one in the military, I hope this article is helpful to you:

https://whatsyourgrief.com/memorial-day/

BIG HUG!

Judy

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We lost you on a saturday morning 9 years ago and it still feels like it just happened. The only son I will ever have and i cant see your face and hold you anymore. My mind still replays to that day when everything seemed alright and then we noticed that you didnt act normal so we called 911 and suddenly your dad began CPR and in the blink of an eye you were gone. In our arms you stopped breathing and we were forced say the words YOU'RE DEAD. Worst day of my life…

It has been two year ago today that I lost my boys. Not a day goes by that I don't think about them. I just woke up today and couldn't quit crying. I keep going day by day putting one foot in front of the other but days like today I just can't move. Does it get any better or am I just deceiving myself.

Wishing you a day filled with LOVE!  If you lost your mother, may you be comforted with loving memories ...

no 1 giv us  bok way 2 deal on loss we do it way we do

It;s been almost 4 months and I still feel deep pain and deep sadness. I miss him so much its indescribable. Nothing I do seems to ease it or mask it. He was such a caring and giving person. I miss my big brother and I want him back

My mother was just about 18 years old when she had me back in the 60's. My father was not in the picture when he found out that she was pregnant, so when I was born it was her mother who was with her. My mother eventually married a fellow whom she had known since the age of 14, and they had three children. Out of the four kids, I was closest to my mother. We could be like oil and water; but at the same time it was like we needed each other to breath. That is how our relationship…

So new to this my name is Karen lost husband two years ago after 33 years with him this is hard moving on.  I was never scared about everything now I'm scared of all have opportunity for a new job but the anxiety I have is crazy.  Even doing this is hard feel alone most of time thank god my son came back with his family have my grand babies to keep me going if didn't have them well I don't know. My life pretty much sucks miss my honey everyday people say it will get easier but not so sure…

Hello. I'm new to this group and new to this level of pain and suffering. 30 years ago when i was only 14, I fell in love with a beautiful girl who would consume my entire life. We were best of friends and did everything together. Some would say we were not healthy with how much time we spent together. She was the sweetest, kindest person i ever knew. Since we were dumb kids, we got pregnant in high school. This introduced yet another interesting dynamic. It was a struggle but we worked…