I feel so lost

[Mary]

Although this may be short, I lost my big sister 3 weeks ago, and then my sweet dog the next week. I have shed tears, had good days, but today isn't a good day. I feel life is so unfair and she was too young, too full of life, I know she could not stay and will meet my big sis again one day in Heaven, but for now...I'm really down.

[Laurene Johnson]

One day at a time, I have good days, bad days and then really bad days that last a week. There is no right or wrong in how we grieve, only that we reach out. Today you have made another step in recovery just by saying the words,"I am having a bad day".

[Mary]

Thank You Laurene, that is so true. Working through this horrible pain by acknowledging I hurt, and it's ok to hurt. I'm so lucky to have found this site.

[Wendi Greene]

Mary,

I am so sorry about your sister and your dog. I understand how you feel because 2 1/2 months ago I lost my friend Brandon to suicide. It has been hard for me and I miss him every day. Like you I have good and bad days and today I am feeling sad. If you ever want to talk let me know.

Wendi

[maryellenmcquown]

grief takes time no need to rush it 

[Kelly smith]

I am so sorry for your losses. I always say I wouldn't wish this pain on anyone ever. I miss my little brother everyday and nite. I am also in a very down phase n trying to push out of it and it's hard to pretend everything is ok on days like this but I know there is hope tmrw it will dull and I ll be able to push ahead again. I see your post is from awhile ago any words of wisdom?

[Kelly smith]

Kelly smith said:

I am so sorry for your losses. I always say I wouldn't wish this pain on anyone ever. I miss my little brother everyday and nite. I am also in a very down phase n trying to push out of it and it's hard to pretend everything is ok on days like this but I know there is hope tmrw it will dull and I ll be able to push ahead again. I see your post is from awhile ago any words of wisdom?

[maryellenmcquown]

i would say day at a time 

[Bobbie Braden]

I do understand I too lost my big sister and a month later my dog jennie past ....... I just think that my sister need Jennie to keep her company.