Help for today & Hope for tomorrow
My wife died 3 weeks ago and I'm at a loss
I feel like my whole world ended when she died. I know I have to work thru my grief but I feel like it's almost impossible.
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Permalink Reply by Laurene Johnson on
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Your world did end, at least the world you created with your wife, it does feel impossible and will for quite awhile. When my husband died, life was impossible everyday, now maybe once every three days. The hardest part is starting to build a new life when all I want is my old life back. I have no great words of wisdom except take life one day at a time. I am still trying to sleep after 10 months, no hope in site, maybe tomorrow. Laurene
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It is it has been five months now and it still feels like yesterday. I wish i could give you some grand words of wisdom. i have moved started a new job and it still hurts just as much. It's day by day at the best only thing that makes it at all better is talking about it. it hurts but it helps even for just those few moments. I wish you nothing but some peace hope i find some too some day.
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I know the feeling.... my husband passed 10/21/2012 and I'm lost right now. I going through some the phases of grief...anger, sadness, guilt, anger, guilt, sadness.... I can't focus, I still have to bury him and I can't even think past the hour. I haven't done the obit. yet. Grief sucks... all I know is that I feel sense that he is here with me. I just wish I could feel him or see him. All I know is that there are many of us who are going through the same thing. There have been people who have lost just as we have lost and their okay today, so I have to keep moving forward and believe that one day I won't feel like dying. That there will be a life waiting for me to enjoy again. Right now I don't see it, but I have to believe that it's out there waiting for me. May God ease our suffering if only for a minute. Melinda
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I totally understand how you feel. I lost the love of my life, my husband August 22nd 2012 and feel so incredibly lost and empty without him. I miss him every moment of every day and no longer feel I live my life... but survive each day.. one day at a time, moment by moment, breath by breath.
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Hi Bill,
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you have been getting support because it's been since August 31 that you last posted. Are you getting help?
Raven
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