unbearable pain

[Heather]

I lost the man who raised me for almost all of my life not even 2 weeks ago. He was killed in a horrible wreck not even a mile from home. My heart is physically in so much pain I can hardly breathe sometimes. I don't know what to do. So many things are uncertain. So many of my questions are unanswered. I can't talk to my husband, he doesn't understand. I can't let my kids see me fall apart. I'm supposed to be the strong one in our family. What an I supposed to do? I'm tired of hearing,"I'm so sorry." Those words are like daggers. Please help.

[Larry]

I understand what you are saying I can't talk to my wife either she doesn't understand . It's hard for me at times to breath and go in with life if you have a pastor you know they can help some too . I would gladly talk to you on here if you need be . I also got all the I'm sorry for your loss or our prayers are with you it defiantly get old . I know it's hard to understand the why are they gone and why did this happen to me questions. It may not help to take one day at a time and not worry about life itself but you do worry