Social Media is The Worst

[Angel]

My brother was killed by his x a few weeks ago. Went on social media to see if her family was the least bit sorry for what she did and they are looking to blame him. Clearly from what the Medical Examiner said it was premeditated but they disagree .. Why can't they just say I'm sorry ???

I'm not saying he was a Saint but she wasn't either but he didn't deserve what happened to him .. And she killed herself as well... They both had kids... Neither of their children should be without their parents ...

I'm angry.. It's changed my personality from happy person to vengeful and angry

[Lulu]

Hi Angel!

Grief plays a huge roll in loss especially when there is so much more involved such as your case. The pain and anger you're feeling is being felt by every one involved. Admitting to her fault in the family side is like betraying her. "Sorry" is something you wont hear for a long time. But with time people start to see things clear and they will see that feeling vengeful and angry only prolongs the healing process and hides the broken heart from repairing itself. 

I'm sure you have a good heart and believe me i felt that anger personally OH! and i wanted revenge but it only weighs us down and puts bitterness in our lives. You cant bring back your brother. You could find ways to remember him in positive form and you will feel better. Go through your anger because its a normal feeling to grief . Also find a way to tell your heart to forgive.