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Lulu replied to Tiffany's discussion Loss
"That is alot to go through in a life time. You seem to be a extremly strong person. Sometimes it seems like life is a never ending cycle of darkness. I hope the light is shinning on you. "
Jul 7, 2018
Lulu replied to Shawn's discussion Help with greaf
"Im sorry for the loss of your Mom. Family could be harsh when a loved one passes away. Maybe you coiuld say goodbye in a memorial form. Going to her favorite spot and lighting a candle or taking flowers. Its imporatnt o have closure. "
Jul 7, 2018
Lulu replied to Sammi's discussion Miscarriage
"Its never too long or to short. This was your baby its okay to mourn the loss. The baby was part of you part of your life. Youre mourning the future you didnt have and its okay. I hope your doing better now. Those precious babies will always live…"
Jul 7, 2018
Lulu replied to Math's discussion I lost my brother in a road collision accident
"I hope youre recovering from your grief. In person support groups have been a true help as well on this site. Reading through the posts helped me realize I wasnt alone in this world of grief. "
Jul 7, 2018
Lulu replied to Samantha's discussion Miss you like crazy
"Its been six months since you wrote this post. I hope that you are doing better. But knowing grief am sure its been a hard road. I too stood behind Gods grace and that was the one thing that helped me through the worse expierence of my life. Hold on…"
Jul 7, 2018
Lulu replied to Kylie's discussion I miss my little girl so so much nearly 6 years ago
"Im sorry youre feeling this pain. It is hell! I hope you find comfort in the near future. Keep fighting for yourself. "
Jul 7, 2018
Lulu replied to Jay's discussion Alone
"Hi Jay sorry to hear about your family. Its not an easy life to face. You been through a lot but your here now and your heart is still beating I dont know when your parents  passed away. I know the depession your going through and how alone the…"
Jul 29, 2016
Lulu replied to Paige Thaxter's discussion Death of a parent
"Hi Paige,  I didnt lose my father when i was young as you are. But i did lose my father many years ago. And i do understand the pain it feels knowing someone we known all our lves have left us. No words make it easier. Nothing anyone could say…"
Jul 3, 2016
Lulu replied to Laura Bechtold's discussion Sleep
"Hi Laura,  I didnt have that problem actually for me i slept to much. I think its something a doctor could help you with. Grief trigers everyone differently. Maybe you're afraid to sleep in the fear you might miss out on something. I dont…"
Jun 30, 2016
Lulu replied to Amanda's discussion Sleep? Restful?
"maybe see a doctor they might be able to help. its important to sleep for your body and heath. fear could take us through so many changes but you need to be strong and fight off those fears. "
Jun 15, 2016
Lulu replied to Angela 's discussion Heartbroken
"so sorry for the loss of your father saying good bye to him on your birthday must have been difficult. We must take it one breath at a time its not an easy journey just let the love he had for you hold you through. Hold on to your faith its a great…"
Jun 15, 2016
Lulu replied to Judy Davidson's discussion Global Grief over Orlando Tragedy
"Heart breaking! Hard to believe this could happen. seems that the world is getting worse as we get older. Young souls taken to soon. May God heal the hearts of their loved ones. "
Jun 15, 2016
Lulu replied to Stephanie's discussion Lost my dad 4 months ago I'm lost
"I think your partner doesnt know what to tell you and feels there is nothing  he could say or do to make things better for you. Some people dont know how deal with loss of their family or friends,  they close up. They feel that by not…"
Jun 11, 2016
Lulu replied to heather's discussion Loneliness
"i know exactly how you feel not wanting to accept being with our loved one. I my self lost the love of my life unexpectly . We were not together very long but we were extremly happy and no one could take that away. With time you will start to heal…"
Jun 11, 2016
Lulu replied to arrow's discussion I still miss my mom after 42yrs.
"Growing up without a Mom has to be difficult how does a young boy let go of something so precious. But its certain that your Mom wouldnt want to you to torment yourself this way not for 42 years not for the rest of your life. Would you want your…"
Jun 11, 2016
Lulu replied to Shaking Griffith's discussion So my brother is Gone
"I think we start by crying and taking in all the emotions that comes with not having our loved ones with us. I think its necesarry for us to feel all these emotions to move on and continue with our lives. Its not an easy journey the family you had…"
Jun 11, 2016

Poetry Books written in Memory of Jeff

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Special Day!

Posted on July 16, 2014 at 12:03pm 2 Comments

Special Day!

The Earth and Moon came out to celebrate your special day no else could say the same. Looks like they also enjoy the hockey game, I look forward to chocolate cake.

Balloons decorate the universe, angels will sing a birthday verse, as soon as the game is over don't you…


Wounded Bird

Posted on July 12, 2014 at 12:22am 2 Comments

Wounded Bird


I mourn you today as I did yesterday and will do tomorrow

I mourn each day with the sunrise as I open my eyes,

I feel emptiness in my heart like a sharp knife! Tears fill my life.

Not one day that I don’t cry since you been gone.


I thought by…


Your Eyes

Posted on June 23, 2014 at 8:00pm 0 Comments

Your Eyes


What a beautiful view I had in November!

It was blue as the clear sky and tender.…


My Progress

Posted on May 13, 2014 at 1:45am 2 Comments

May 12th

Time flew and so did his memorial balloon, fifth month since Jeff been gone. I did a lot of thinking and a lot crying mostly wondering what the future holds for me. I do see a bit of progress it’s been two months since the body ache went away…


Comment Wall (8 comments)

At 9:45am on March 13, 2014, Judy Davidson said…

Welcome to Grief Hope Network!  Please let us know how we can help.  Add your picture to your profile and feel free to share pictures of your loved one so we can get to know you better.  Connect with other members in the chat room, read blog posts . . .

At 2:12pm on June 25, 2014, heidi bermender said…


At 9:56am on July 11, 2014, Robert Weiss said…

Thanks for writing.  The experience is still so fresh in our minds.  Veronika was killed on May 23.  I find myself replaying the details that I've heard from the investigation and our late night experience of getting the phone call from her friends trying to locate her in the middle of the night.  My grief is kinda stuck in the denial stage.  I still can't fully believe this has happened.

At 10:22pm on December 29, 2014, Judy Davidson said…

Hi Lulu,

One of our members, Ted Scherff is hosting a scheduled chat session Tuesday, Dec. 30th at 9PM EST. He'd like to share and discuss some books that have helped him since his wife passed away 2 months ago.  As you know it helps your grief recovery when you are able to help others.  It was kindof Ted to suggest this topic and brave for him to agree to host the chat session.  I'm not 100% sure I'll be able to make it, but  hope you can!  

Happy New Year!


At 8:48pm on January 20, 2015, Ruth Nagy said…
That would be wonderful to chat with you. I only have one really close friend up here and I Know she is very supportive of me but I don't want to abuse our friendship by calling on her and crying on her shoulder. She says the she wouldn't have it any other way. I'm suppose to meet up with her at the end of the week.
At 4:34pm on March 9, 2015, gabriela herrera said…

Thank you Lulu for your nice message,

I am very sad since my sister passed away

on March 7th, crying without stop, so your text 

comforted me , thank you once more


At 2:31pm on March 17, 2015, Judy Davidson said…

Hi Lulu,

I'm back from my mom's memorial services and now am sick with a sinus infection.  I'm sorry, it's just too hard providing support to others right now, when I'm barely coping myself. Thank you for what you've done so far.  Would you mind responding to the recent blog posts and forum discussions?  Thanks a million.  I hope to have more energy and clarity back next week.

Big hug,


At 9:23pm on April 17, 2016, Chase said…
How do you live without someone in your life?

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