Started this discussion. Last reply by Judy Davidson Jan 14, 2015. 1 Reply 0 Likes
the truth is that once you have had a loss life is not the same it is now what we term a new normal i lost my mom 4 years ago .Continue
Started this discussion. Last reply by maryellenmcquown Mar 15, 2014. 2 Replies 0 Likes
hello al l , wow what an interesting my frieog oand called me and said that she found a blog post that mom did back in 2009 wow and something else that she did in 2010 mom told me nothing about this…Continue
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Posted on December 25, 2014 at 6:40pm 2 Comments 0 Likes
i can remember when i was new to this grief wow things to remember it is good to find support it is ok to be sad get help
Posted on November 8, 2012 at 5:12pm 0 Comments 1 Like
there are good days and bad but one thing to do is to keep the memories alive by doing thing like art or cooking or working in the yard things like that
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Hi, Maryellen
Hello MaryEllen. This is Henrietta Baker. I have so much bottled up that I don't know what to do. I lost my Ex-husband last March. I can hardly believe he will be gone a year in March. From the time they diagnosed him with Liver Cancer til he died, it was less than two weeks. I know this is wrong, but I wish it was me that had died and not him. He was stronger than I am. What else can a person do? I have prayed, until I can't pray anymore. I feel a piece of me is gone. Thank you for listening to me. God bless all of you.
Thank you for your kind words. I need help, I think. I lost my husband of 41 years to cancer three years ago. I ran away from home to be with him when I was 17. He was my best friend, my soul mate. He fought it for seven years and I took care of him but still worked full time. I was with him when he died. There was nothing left unsaid. I even went to a medium about a year later and I know that he is fine and happy and with me always and that we will be together again some day.
I have done everything I was supposed to do. I waited a year, then I retired but got another job in another city to be near my kids and grandkids. It's a great job. But I am so incredibly sad and lonely. I miss him so much and no amount of activity can make up for it. Every little thing reminds me of him. I cry every day. I don't want my employer to think I'm a basket case. I don't want my daughter to know how unhappy I am, it would make her feel bad. I've been taking anti-depressants since before he died.
Is there something wrong with me? Is three years too long? WIll this get better?
Dont know what to say other than thank you.
Thank you for your condolences.
Thank you so much for your condolences.
Thank you for your response, Maryellen. I'm sorry for not responding sooner to you but the Holidays suck for me for lots of reasons. Just want you to know that I appreciate your effort...
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