Today I am coming out for help. I recently just lost my dad suddenly he was hit by a car and never came hone. We are big Italian family and we are all having a hard time dealing. We also lost my grandmother 6months ago which is my moms mom so she now lost her husband and mom. With the holidays coming I am so depressed and down and so is my mom. All I keep asking is why this happened? My dad just retired he was the rock to our family and now he is gone what do I do?