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My words at the funeral

A new chapter diluted by the end

A new chapter disguised as the end

There were more stories to tell

Involving you

Dry humour

Off grid escapism

Stare at the sky and decipher cloud movement

Your mind was your own

Still water with a silent bobbing boat

Words no longer find letters to float

James On The Hill can still exist

In my mind at least

Cloud vapour hand rung with red wine

That scent of loneliness… Continue

Added by Kriss Goodyer on June 19, 2017 at 5:17am — No Comments

I Miss You

I miss you dad i wish you were here

Added by lees on May 16, 2017 at 11:29am — 2 Comments

Anxiety

Does it really ever get better I lost my husband my soulmate love of my life. It just seems like the pain and anxiety will never go away it's been 9 months. I just cannot seem to get back to me everyone says keep busy I do I work with cancer patients which is what took my husband I try and keep a smile on my face but I still cry and miss him so much!

Added by Teresa Carter on May 15, 2017 at 5:39pm — 4 Comments

Happy Mother's Day!!!

Wishing you a day filled with LOVE! If you lost your mother, may you be comforted with loving memories ...

Added by Judy Davidson on May 14, 2017 at 1:39pm — No Comments

Sad anxiety

A year ago I lost my husband very suddenly.. I have a 5 year old daughter with this man and my family trys to help but most of the time it only makes it worse I need to find my self again and get out of bed and move on with life please tell me you all have the same problems and how to fix it or cope with it

Added by Kylee on April 23, 2017 at 12:11pm — No Comments

book

no 1 giv us bok way 2 deal on loss we do it way we do

Added by dreammoon jo on April 9, 2017 at 3:25pm — No Comments

Still feeling intense pain

It;s been almost 4 months and I still feel deep pain and deep sadness. I miss him so much its indescribable. Nothing I do seems to ease it or mask it. He was such a caring and giving person. I miss my big brother and I want him back

Added by Beth on March 29, 2017 at 1:26pm — 2 Comments

Missing my mother

My mother was just about 18 years old when she had me back in the 60's. My father was not in the picture when he found out that she was pregnant, so when I was born it was her mother who was with her. My mother eventually married a fellow whom she had known since the age of 14, and they had three children. Out of the four kids, I was closest to my mother. We could be like oil and water; but at the same time it was like we needed each other to breath. That is how our relationship…

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Added by Loreena Maureen Brackenbury on February 27, 2017 at 4:25pm — No Comments

So new to this my name is Karen lost husband two years ago after 33 years with him this is hard moving on. I was never scared about everything now I'm scared of all have opportunity for a new job bu…

So new to this my name is Karen lost husband two years ago after 33 years with him this is hard moving on. I was never scared about everything now I'm scared of all have opportunity for a new job but the anxiety I have is crazy. Even doing this is hard feel alone most of time thank god my son came back with his family have my grand babies to keep me going if didn't have them well I don't know. My life pretty much sucks miss my honey everyday people say it will get easier but not so sure…

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Added by Karen on February 9, 2017 at 3:54am — 3 Comments

I lost the love of my life three weeks ago

Hello. I'm new to this group and new to this level of pain and suffering. 30 years ago when i was only 14, I fell in love with a beautiful girl who would consume my entire life. We were best of friends and did everything together. Some would say we were not healthy with how much time we spent together. She was the sweetest, kindest person i ever knew. Since we were dumb kids, we got pregnant in high school. This introduced yet another interesting dynamic. It was a struggle but we worked…

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Added by Brad on January 28, 2017 at 6:35pm — 3 Comments

Grandpa and Dad

I lost my grandpa to Parkinson's disease about a week ago

Added by Giselle on January 16, 2017 at 11:44am — No Comments

Losing myself how do you let go

In the last year I have lost two cousins one of which was like a brother, two uncles and both my grandmother one of which was my best friend and favorite person in the world. I have two children 6 yr old girl and 7mth old boy I am sad all the time. I am losing myself and I'm so tired of crying.

Added by Amber on January 10, 2017 at 7:57am — No Comments

Grieving

Joined r on talk about my lost try to get through it

Added by Stephanie on December 18, 2016 at 11:06am — 1 Comment

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Added by dreammoon jo on December 5, 2016 at 1:38pm — 2 Comments

Father Died

My father died about 4 and a half years ago and i still cant look at something of his without bursting into tears. No one in my family looks like they feel the same. My mom hardly pays attentention to me & my sister moved out so im basically alone. I just feel like screaming into a pillow. I cut myself trying to get rid of the pain and it doesnt help. I wish i had someone to talk to , to understand what im going through

Added by Joseline on December 4, 2016 at 10:47pm — 2 Comments

pet loss

pet loss is still loss loss my fir kid on 22.11.16 i did she wz 16/17 yrs she wz my cat lucy

Added by dreammoon jo on November 26, 2016 at 2:59pm — 4 Comments

Can't feel anything

Emotionless

Added by Rad on October 31, 2016 at 10:36am — No Comments

crash

my body seam 2 be a car crasg coz of so mush losss so mush bad sh@@@@@@@@@@@@@@y goin on in my lif@@ u cud say

im lkslf destrk thnx gs i cnt driv u cud say

Added by dreammoon jo on October 27, 2016 at 1:53pm — No Comments

Daddy

My dad passed away when I was 10. I am scared because as time passes I feel I am forgetting the sound of his voice and I feel alone if I talk to my mom it always ends with her doing the sympathy thing and I know she doesn't mean to I'm terrified I am forgetting my father

Added by Annabelle on October 16, 2016 at 3:12pm — 3 Comments

Two weeks today

Again I still cant believe it, he was only 33, no signs or symptoms of his upcoming death, yet he died, OF A HEART ATTACK. this is not supposed to happen at this age, and heck I lost my dad the same say at 14 so this isnt supposed to happen to a person twice.

Everyone is throwing all kinds of what I think are dumb questions at me right now such as:

1- Are you going to move?

2- when will you get ride of his clothes?

3- do you want a double head stone so you can be…

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Added by Katelyn Hansen on October 5, 2016 at 6:36pm — 1 Comment