My dad passed suddenly this past January. It’s been understandable that my mom (married to My dad for 51 years) has been grieving. About 2 months ago, she started dating someone. I’m trying to be understanding but I can’t help but feel disgusted and hurt. As I’m dealing with the loss of my dad, my mom has been absent emotionally in my life. I get that I’m an adult but I just can’t help but want my mom to be there for me. So now I’m trying to accept the loss of a relationship with her. What makes matters worse is that my mom and I are neighbors. She hasn’t bothered to even talk to me at all, not just about her new friend, but she seems to be avoiding me. I’m at a loss as to how to move on.