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Recently lost my husband to covid

I feel traumatized because we didn't have a chance to say goodbye

Added by Rosa Morales on August 31, 2021 at 10:17pm — 5 Comments

Loss of three friends of mine

"Life sucks."-Everyday when I wake up, that's seriously what I think. Just one simple yet harsh sentence, phrased into two words. And let me tell you why. Three of my closest friends have been ripped out of my life forever and I got betrayed by another friend of mine. Who wouldn't think that after all that loss? Being the friend I am, I remember that I stubbornly refused to accept the fact that two of my friends have taken their lives (after vowing that they valued…


Added by Philyra kwan on August 26, 2021 at 6:54pm — No Comments


I can't believe it's been a year and almost 6 months since my mom died so much has happened
That I would like to share with her but I can't some days it is easy other days are just so hard...

Added by Allyson R Gizzi on August 16, 2021 at 11:16am — 1 Comment

Does it get easier

I just lost my husband we where together 5 years and married for 2. He died getting his kidney removed it's been hard on all of us. We did his funeral and I really wish people would stop coming over stop asking if we need anything. We spent the last two years just us and certain family now all these people idk and my kids barely know keep trying to help and I just wanna be alone I wanna cry with my kids alone. I know it sounds crazy out loud but I just wanna help my kids get through this… Continue

Added by Chynna on July 31, 2021 at 7:43pm — 1 Comment

I miss my sisters

I am 54 yesterday, I was the middle child, but now I am older than my big sister.. At this point in my life all I want to do is talk to them. Even though, Tammy passed about 18 years ago and Honey about 6. I still want so badly to tell them what is happening in my life.

Added by christine ivie on May 18, 2021 at 8:44pm — No Comments

How Deer Hunting Helps Me Through Tough Times

Throughout my life, there have been plenty of hardships that I have had to cope with.  Whether it was a family member dying or the never-ending stress of work, I have always had to find ways to deal with the struggles and get through to the other side.

I have tried so many things to help me through these tough times including exercise and talking it out, but…


Added by Alex Danner on April 26, 2021 at 11:32am — 1 Comment


The one year anniversary of my brothers passing is coming up and all i seem to be able to do is just cry and hurt. I will check my messages thinking maybe he texted me and then it hits me all of a sudden and it feels like its killing me. I cant help but think of all he ever did for us and how he always tried to hang out with me but i just never compromised with him. I think what scares me the most is whether he really is in heaven or if hes just gone. Ill smell something or ill see something…


Added by Emily Kay Stewart on March 19, 2021 at 9:45am — No Comments

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I started a blog thinking that maybe that would help with some of the hurt and it has but it doesn't take away the fear that I am going to leave my parents alone or my kids. 

Added by Jackie on February 28, 2021 at 2:05pm — No Comments

Missing my brother

In May 2014, my life changed forever, I loss my brother, my only sibling. He went missing and his body recovered 3 days later from lake. I go there often, just look out upon the water and talk out loud, maybe G-D is listening. Though people say it's not your fault, I still feel after these yrs, that it was, I failed my brother. I miss my brother and almost can't believe that he's not here anymore. You read/hear about missing people and feel for their families that they come home safe, but when… Continue

Added by Esther on February 25, 2021 at 11:27am — No Comments

Struggling to cope

My ex husband and father of my two daughters passed away on January 26th, 2021.  We were together 13 years, married 6 and divorced 10. Sadly he was very abusive when we were together and often times tried to continue that behavior over the past 10 years.  He was an alcoholic and also had issues with drugs which is what led to our divorce.  I own my part in the downfall of our marriage because once I became a mom that is all that mattered to me, being a wife came last.  Over the past 10 years…


Added by Andrea on February 16, 2021 at 9:10am — No Comments

Missing my brother

My brother's gone, gone forever. How do I accept he's not here. It's been 6 yrs now, can't believe it. I'm searching for something, not sure what it is. Maybe answers to questions that will never be. The answers died when my brother died. I failed my brother, that I know.

Added by Esther on December 27, 2020 at 9:46pm — No Comments



I thought I was fine. And most days I think I am..the key there being THINK. My father was involved in a hit and run, which completely altered his life. We fought for 16 days to make the right decisions to try and save him. He has EXTENSIVE injuries, and ultimately we reached a point where he was not progressing and he was starting to go downhill. I had one good day with him before he started having stroke and seizures, and then he was gone. He fell into a completly…


Added by angel on November 25, 2020 at 8:16am — No Comments

Best Vastu Consultants and Vastu Tips for a Happy, Positive and Ideal Home

Vastu Consultant

We all always hope for the best and pray for peace, peace and prosperity in our homes. It is one thing to stay positive and pray, but have you ever thought about what else can be done to achieve all your life-goals and attract peace, positivity? Vastu Consultant is the answer. The fundamentals of the architectural cycle included surrounding various sources of energy, solar and astronomical.…


Added by Anandi Datt on November 11, 2020 at 12:47am — No Comments

dealing with loss is hard

hi my name is kimberly im 30 years old 6 years ago on april 12 my grandmother past she was so much more to me she did not get to see me get married than 1 year ago my mother in law passed she taught me so much im new here and just bascily here in hopes to incourage people as will as to be in couraged i also lost my baby in 2016 to a mis carrage i have people tell me that death is a curse that follows me so many has passed away in my life in a 1 year span i had 3 to pa pass in the home i was…


Added by Kimberly Smith on February 17, 2020 at 8:17pm — 2 Comments

miss him!!

Well, I have recently loss my husband of 36 yrs to a stroke,my world is shatter and my heart is so broken i will never feel anything again.He was the best husband anyone could of have,and a great father to our 3 children.I feel cheated and very overwhelm with doing things for myself, he was the person that i leaned on all the time,we was like two peas in a pod.he would leave for work and two minutes later send me a text saying i love you and miss you.we was high school sweet hearts.I am…


Added by Linda on December 20, 2019 at 4:06am — 8 Comments

My dad died but I seem to have lost both parents

My dad passed suddenly this past January. It’s been understandable that my mom (married to My dad for 51 years) has been grieving. About 2 months ago, she started dating someone. I’m trying to be understanding but I can’t help but feel disgusted and hurt. As I’m dealing with the loss of my dad, my mom has been absent emotionally in my life. I get that I’m an adult but I just can’t help but want my mom to be there for me. So now I’m trying to accept the loss of a relationship with her. What… Continue

Added by Tia on December 11, 2019 at 8:25am — 2 Comments

Very lonely and sad

Hi I’m Lisa I lost my son July 21st to a drug overdose. I am having a very hard time and
His siblings are being very distant. My parents are both deceased and I have no other family so I’m feeling very desperate at times.

Added by Lisa on September 15, 2019 at 11:54pm — 1 Comment

first post

Hello, my name is Hadjer, I'm 20 years old. I don't know how to start this. I'm here because I lost my adoptive parents six years ago to cancer and a heart attack and my twin brother, four years ago in a car accident i was also in. I like to think that I'm strong person but i can't help but think that if I let people in, they'll die. Even tho it has been years, I still can't bring myself to grief or stop blaming myself because it feels like if I do it will be as if I had accepted that…


Added by hadjer taleb on July 28, 2019 at 3:15pm — 2 Comments

First Mother's Day without my mom.

Celebrated mother's day today with my husband's family. His mother, aunt, and grandmother all present. While I feel loved and welcome, I can't help but to shake the overwhelming feeling of loneliness after losing my mother late last summer ...and my grandmother 2 weeks after. In the last two years I've lost both of my parents and my two grandmothers (grandfather's have been passed for a while now). I felt I was able to grieve easily for my grandfather's because I had the support of my family.… Continue

Added by Dianna on May 13, 2019 at 4:36am — 4 Comments

please help

I am scared to death of everything after death of husband.  

wat to do?

Added by Clarinda Sprankle on May 4, 2019 at 9:11am — 1 Comment

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