I think we start by crying and taking in all the emotions that comes with not having our loved ones with us. I think its necesarry for us to feel all these emotions to move on and continue with our lives. Its not an easy journey the family you had all your life is gone. Its the biggest heartbreak of all times. It defiently proves our strength. You need to hold on tight and lock in the memories and try to live your life too try and have some peace because they are at peace . Your life matters too take care of it like they would have wanted you to.