"good evening Dee. my heart truly aches for you both. I know of the pain and loss you feel Dee. Im saddened by your daughters emptiness for her daddy. If you have some old videos she can watch of her daddy that may lighten her heart as well as your…"
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"I will always have his memory alive. My daughter has been talking more and more about her dad. I think it's hitting her now. The realization that daddy is not coming through the door at any time. The realization is…"
"Hello Dee, I dont know how I do it either, with the grace of the Lord. I dont know if reality kicks in or not Dee. all I can say is take each moment as it comes. I always tell people this is my new reality,my new normal, as my old normal is gone and…"
"Thank you. As vacation nears I hurt so bad. I honestly still don't believe it? When does reality kick in? If you don't mind me asking how did you lose your family? I'm sorry that you lost both husband and…"
"good morning Dee, I hope you have a blessed day today,and I know you will celebrate your daughters birthday with love and joy and ache inside. I know how you are feeling. But your precious daughter will help you heal Dee and she needs your strength…"
"Thank you Regina. I do smile when I think of his funny ways. Our daughter reminds me of him a lot. I'm planning her 6th bday and Its sad he won't be there. But I'm having a party for her in his honor. …"
"Thank you for your words. I do not feel like Im being judge nor do I feel like Im in any rush to heal soon. I just feel lonely. I don't and am not looking to find a relationship nor another man to love. All I want is to…"
"Hi Dee:) smile today when you think of your husband,through the tears he will touch your heart. Have a blessed day. Im here anytime you need a friend to talk with. gina:)"
"Hi Anilo:
Yes in 22 days it will be 2 months. I woke up very sad today and just wanting to sleep all day long. But I have to push for my 5 year old. I'm at work now and saw your message I wanted to respond and say thank you…"
"Hi Regina: I received your message but I'm very new at this and not sure how it works the site I mean. I hope I'm responding in the right area. Thank you for your message. Although my husband past just a month ago I…"
"Hi Dee, my name is gina,and I ve lost my husband and my only son. I know how empty you are feeling right now,and alone. you will find comfort here. I have been coming here for over three years now. and always feel better when I m here and can talk…"
"Hello: I lost my husband a month ago also. Its not crazy. I feel guilty cleaning stuff out and reading his personal thoughts. Can we talk?"
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- My husband past away recently. I have no one to talk to
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- At 8:43pm on May 30, 2019,
Regina Diana Reed said…
Hi Dee, my name is gina,and I ve lost my husband and my only son. I know how empty you are feeling right now,and alone. you will find comfort here. I have been coming here for over three years now. and always feel better when I m here and can talk with others who truly know what Im going through. I know how your emotions are all over the place and the numbness you are feeling. I can send you a friends request if youd like to talk more. I will try to help you if I can,andI always feel better when I talk to others. may you have a peaceful night and my prayers are with you. a friend,,gina:)
- At 10:26am on May 31, 2019,
Hi Dee:) smile today when you think of your husband,through the tears he will touch your heart. Have a blessed day. Im here anytime you need a friend to talk with. gina:)
- At 5:23pm on May 31, 2019,
Thank you Regina. I do smile when I think of his funny ways. Our daughter reminds me of him a lot. I'm planning her 6th bday and Its sad he won't be there. But I'm having a party for her in his honor. I'll be putting pictures up of past bdays we had together for our daughter. We are even going on a vacation we planned for her and he was so happy to make it but unfortunately he passed. I know he will be there in spirit. And even though I will be so hurt to go without him I know that is what he would of wanted.
- At 6:14am on June 1, 2019,
good morning Dee, I hope you have a blessed day today,and I know you will celebrate your daughters birthday with love and joy and ache inside. I know how you are feeling. But your precious daughter will help you heal Dee and she needs your strength too. My prayers are with you my friend. take care ,gina:)
- At 11:02am on June 2, 2019,
Thank you. As vacation nears I hurt so bad. I honestly still don't believe it? When does reality kick in? If you don't mind me asking how did you lose your family? I'm sorry that you lost both husband and son. I don't know how you are doing it. May God Bless You always.
- At 11:52am on June 5, 2019,
Hello Dee, I dont know how I do it either, with the grace of the Lord. I dont know if reality kicks in or not Dee. all I can say is take each moment as it comes. I always tell people this is my new reality,my new normal, as my old normal is gone and will never be the same ever. It really took me almost 2 years before I could accept or acknoweldge my sons death. I still feel that way sometimes Dee. especially around different holidays and his birthday. As for my husbands death, was a very long ,slow ,painful deathand I had time to accept what was coming and face it head on, but my sons death, was unexpected, and quick ,and I didnt have a chance to say I love you one more time, or Im proud of you, etc,so I walk along with all that guilt and pain within me,and it just gets heavier as time goes on.I will keep you in my prayers,and I know you have a daughter who loves you deeply. Try to keep her fathers memories alive for her ,I know it is hard,and it is so very painful, but she s worth it Dee. may God bless you both my friend. take care. gina:)
- At 7:32pm on June 5, 2019,
I will always have his memory alive. My daughter has been talking more and more about her dad. I think it's hitting her now. The realization that daddy is not coming through the door at any time. The realization is hitting her now more than before. She talks about him almost everyday now and cries that she misses her daddy. It's so heart breaking. But she needs to talk and vent. Its necessary. I take it day by day. He is thought of everyday and missed and loved. He was special and one of a kind. They don't make them like him anymore. Opening car doors, carrying bags. walking on the outside of the street. please and thank you hardly cursed good son, brother, friend, father and husband. Funny sweet and sense of humor. I told her about the vacation daddy planned for her and she is excited. Can't wait to see her smile. Have a good night Gina. Be well.
- At 5:52pm on June 6, 2019,
good evening Dee. my heart truly aches for you both. I know of the pain and loss you feel Dee. Im saddened by your daughters emptiness for her daddy. If you have some old videos she can watch of her daddy that may lighten her heart as well as your own. Ive always longed to have a man in my life just like your husband. You both are truly blessed to of beenloved by him and he knows the love you both shared together. Let those memories come into your heart and help heal you both. I know this fathers day will be a bruetal one,but just hold on Dee, it does take a lot of time to heal and come to grips of all the emotions and numbness you are experiencing now. many blessing Dee. take care my friend. be well, and strong. gina:)
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