Lost my spouse on Jan 5, 14.  He was a truck driver and died at a rest area in Michigan.  He would call me 6-10 times a day so he could just talk to me  When I didn't hear from him for 48 hours, I knew something was wrong, his company called for a welfare check and found in dead in his sleeper.  After autopsy reports, he died on bacterial pneumonia and influenza A.  I didn't realize he was that sick when he left 3 days before, we had just spend New Years together at home.I have come to…