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Monica
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" Good Day,How is everything with you, I picked interest on you after going through your short profile and deemed it necessary to write you immediately. I have something very vital to disclose to you, but I found it difficult to express myself…"
"Monica, I know you feel guilty about knowing your daughters desease. My son had a similar health issue that I (as a mother) should of known or seen or suspected. I walked around for two years feeling so guilty ,and maybe I could of prevented…"
"Thank you for responding. My daughter, Selena was only 20 years old when she passed. She had diabetes, which was never known until I got the autopsy results. She died of diabetic ketoacidosis(not sure if I spelt that right but). As a mother, I feel…"
"Hi MOnica, I felt the same way when my son passed away. no one would take the time to really listen to me or really understand where I was coming from. Thats how I ended up in this site. anytime you want to talk and share your journey ,Im here. Id…"
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- Please share the reason(s) why you joined this site?
- Lost my daughter just about a year ago. Haven't really had the opportunity to grieve her death. Just want to be listened to without judgment
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- At 4:30pm on January 26, 2020,
Regina Diana Reed said…
Hi MOnica, I felt the same way when my son passed away. no one would take the time to really listen to me or really understand where I was coming from. Thats how I ended up in this site. anytime you want to talk and share your journey ,Im here. Id be quiet and listen ,and I know exactly where you are coming from and how you are feeling. When my son Ed passed away I was in denial for almost 2 years. I walked around numb,and so empty inside,and didnt want anyone around me. Then I joned here and have met some wonderful friends,we all share our stories and our emotions. Im in and out during most days, and I hope to chat with you some more Monica,just dont give up my friend.may you find some peace and comfort here. a friend,gina:)
- At 4:31pm on January 26, 2020, Regina Diana Reed gave Monica a gift…
- At 5:43pm on January 26, 2020,
- Thank you for responding. My daughter, Selena was only 20 years old when she passed. She had diabetes, which was never known until I got the autopsy results. She died of diabetic ketoacidosis(not sure if I spelt that right but). As a mother, I feel as I let her down. I never picked up on the signs of her troubles and I could ever rarely get her to talk about things. I feel like if I could have been there more for her, she'd still be here. I just have so much guilt built up inside. I wish so bad to just to be able to hold her one last time and tell her how much she means to,not only me but her brother and rest of her family
- At 10:20am on January 27, 2020,
Monica, I know you feel guilty about knowing your daughters desease. My son had a similar health issue that I (as a mother) should of known or seen or suspected. I walked around for two years feeling so guilty ,and maybe I could of prevented his passing so young. I know they say everything happens for a reason, but Im not sure if I beleave that where we lose our children. Always beleaved we as parents shouldnt out live our children, but here I am. the last few lines in your staement above is exactly how Ive felt for 4 years now. I still feel guilty and helpless,and sometimes not worthy of the title mother. But I do know my son knew I loved him more than life itself. I would of gladly taken his place in death, but for some unknown reason the Lord needed my son,and Im here for another purpose. I will keep you in my prayers and we share a bond that others can only guess how this feels inside. take care Monica,and dont put yourself through years of guilt like I have done. Life is precious and so so short. take care my friend..gina:))
- At 4:51am on April 5, 2020,
Good Day,
How is everything with you, I picked interest on you after going through your short profile and deemed it necessary to write you immediately. I have something very vital to disclose to you, but I found it difficult to express myself here, since it's a public site.Could you please get back to me on:( soniacheng123@gmail.com ) for the full details.
Have a nice day weekend
Sonia
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