Jan. 18th 2013 I lost my father. I spent his last five days of life with him telling him it was ok to go if he was that tired in his body and mind..i flew from arizona to ohio to tell him what my other family members would not, I arrived here slept one night then the call my father passed..i thought this process would go smoother yet it lingers in me daily, I told him to go and I miss him more then I can even explain...