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Yes, the pain is unbearable. The suffering lasts for a long time. You are here for a reason, and your husband wants to to be here until it is your time to join him. It is not easy. It is unbearable, but we are here.
Ted
Joanna so sorry to read your story I know what you mean when you say no one understands and they dont really. I think they become afraid of the situation and dont know how to cope so they say the wrong thing or distance them selfs from us. But try and be easy on them because its all new to them also. I lost a wonderful man i was dating a little bit more than a year ago and I felt into a deep depression my life turned upside down and i lived tha way for months and months. Being here can help cope with your loss . reading and sharing the stories may enlighten you. I pray you find comfort .
Patrice, We are a group with the most difficult circumstances that tie us together. Greif, Loss and Transition. I have been searching hour by hour, day by day, week by week, and month by month for answers. For diretion. For some sort of comfort or healing. I'm still searching. After 5 months (today), I just don't want to be here, on this Earth. But I am. Suffering, crying, broken-hearted. This is our common bond. Share if you can. There are those of us who will listen and empathize. Because, we can and we care.
Ted
Hi Joanna,
Please take care as best you can. Your experience is not an uncommon one. Your husband is there. The cologne experience is a fairly common sign that he is with you. It is good to talk out-loud to him. Now, as my understanding of this situation, and that's all it is-my understanding, nothing more, you will need to find a balance so that you're husband can do what he needs to do, while also watching over you.
I hope your pain gives you a break now and then. It's so difficult.
Ted
Personally, I'm certain he is. There are things we can do in an attempt to access our loved ones on the other side. I've just started to work on that. i want with all my soul to keep in contact, if possible, with my wife. I just miss her so much and hurt so badly.
I am glad to hear you are feeling a bit better.
Ted
Joanna, The exact same is true for me. My wife and I are not residents of the state she died in and that I now am in. No friends, not anyone to be with at all. It is so lonely and sad. I don't even know what life looks like at this point.
Ted
Joanna I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband almost 10 months ago and we have 3 children. Like you my husband and I made our world about the 2 of us and our kids and it's hard because he was my rock and I was his. And now I just feel so very alone like the world goes on but I am moving at a different speed. You have to function for the kids but inside I feel like my life ended when his ended. and it's always the good ones that he takes.. at least to me it seems that way. There is no rhyme or reason, there is no why and there is no making sense of it all.. It just IS. And almost 10 months later I still find it so unreal and unimagineable. I never thought I would be by myself. I thought he would be there forever. Talking or posting to others who are in the same boat does help... in some small way.
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