Hello members,

I came across this information and thought it might be helpful tool to assist you through your grief process ...

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Judy…

 ITS BEEN 18 MONTHS SINCE MY SWEET ANGEL PASSED AWAY I CRY EVERYDAY AND CANNOT STOP CRYING  I JUST YEANR SO MUCH TO BE WITH HIM   HE WAS AND IS MY ENTIRE WORLD I CANNOT SEEM TO KEEP GOING I GO TO COUNSELING  I READ ON GRIEF I FEEL SO VERY LOST  AND I FEEL THIS WORLD IS A PLACE I DONNOT WANT TO BE  YOU NEED TO UNDERSTNAD BILL WAS EVERYGHING TO ME  WE DIDI EVERTHING TOGETHER HE WORTE ME POETRY AND CARDS HE HELD MY HANDS EVERYDAY  AND HE HELD MY HEART IN HIS WE WERE TWO PEOPLE THAT SHARED THE…

Author Debra Morrison is looking for volunteers to be a review reader of her new financial advice book,My Husband Died Now What? A Widow's Guide to Emotional Recovery & Smart Financial Decisions.

All you need to do is email info@msmorrisonspeaks.com and write "Beta Reader" in the subject line. Debra will send you a digital copy of her book in return for your reading the book and emailing your comments to her as to what you think she…

We can barely go a week without hearing about a celebrity divorce in the media.  Most of us have family members or friends that are divorced.  Some of us have been through divorce ourselves. 

As a teacher, I always appreciated it when the parents of my students would let me know when a big change was taking place in their family.  One change that occurred more frequently was parents separating or getting divorced.  Sometimes just knowing that helped me understand why a student was…

Special Day!

The Earth and Moon came out to celebrate your special day no else could say the same. Looks like they also enjoy the hockey game, I look forward to chocolate cake.

Balloons decorate the universe, angels will sing a birthday verse, as soon as the game is over don't you curse! In our afterlife we are two damn happy cartoons exactly as…

Wounded Bird

I mourn you today as I did yesterday and will do tomorrow

I mourn each day with the sunrise as I open my eyes,

I feel emptiness in my heart like a sharp knife! Tears fill my life.

Not one day that I don’t cry since you been gone.

I thought by now I’d be dry inside ready to die.

Memories of you…

i feal as if i am a jinx evry 1 i sea gets sic or thy die 

i feal as if i am jinx dont no if its coz iv had big multi loss or not

Please check under EVENTS on the Home page for the days and times of scheduled chat room sessions.  

Of course you can use the chat room at anytime.   But, we have found that having scheduled chat room times makes it easier for members to connect with each other. There is a different time for each day, Monday through Friday to accommodate with all times zones around the world.  All scheduled times are in the Pacific Time Zone. Please come to share your thoughts and…

Daughter:  "Are you sure you want to go home?  Why don't I just take you home with me?  I can bring you back anytime you want me to--I promise.  I'm just worried about you."

Me:  "No, Honey--I'm fine--really!"  (Oh, god, don't let me convince you I'm ok!  The last thing I want in this world is…

Your Eyes

What a beautiful view I had in November!

It was blue as the clear sky and tender.

Eye lashes as long as the sun…

Happy Father's Day! To all members here that are fathers.  For those of you that have lost your father, I just added a new blog post on the Home page. I hope it is helpful to you today.  Please share your favorite memory of your Father.  I just did in the chat room, but I'll add it here:

One of my favorite childhood memories was of my dad singing, "Summer Time." We were in our backyard pool; he was sitting and I was standing on his knees looking down into his eyes.  The old…

So i guess this is where i talk about how i feel.

Here it goes.

I haven't gone a single day without thinking about him since April 28th, 2014, when i found out that one of my closest friends had taken their own life. A single bullet to the head stopped one of the biggest hearts from beating. I remember sitting in class and reading the message over and over and over. Praying it was some stupid joke. Oh how i wish every day that it was a joke. I couldn't handle it, i didn't know…

AFTER MY SWEET ANGEL PASSED AWAY I REMEMBER SITTING IN THE DEN AND CRYING AND ALL OF A SUDDEN MY LITTL SHIH TZU STARRED UP AT THE CEILING AND WAS RUNNING BACK AND FORTH AS IF CHASING SOMETHING IN THE CEILING  I WAS SO TAKEN BY THAT  THE LITTL SHIH TZU JUST KEPT STARIING AT THE CEILING AND RUNNING BACK AND FORTH AS IF CHASING SOMETRHING HE SAW

I KNOW WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL IT WAS MY SWEET ANGEL BILL SPIRIT  THAT HE SAW I HAVE HAD MANY OF THESES EXPERENCES SINCE MY SWEET BILL PASSED…

 HI I WENT TO CHURCH ON SUNDAY HAVENOT BEEN IN CHURCH FOR A WHILE I PUT MY PURSE ON THE PEW BENCH AND SAW NOTHING ON THE BENCH  AS I PUT MY PURSE DOWN THEN WHEN THE TIME CAME FOR AN OFFERING  I PICKED UP MY PURSE TO GET THE MONEY AND BEHOLD ON THE BENCH WAS 5 FISH CRACKERS  THEY WERE NOT THERE BEFORE   THE INTERVENTION  WAS THOSE ARE THE ONLY CRACKERS MY SWEET BILL WOULD EAT 

The above title may be confusing to you at this time.  After all, you’re probably thinking, ‘My heart is broken in a million pieces over the loss of my loved one.  How can God bless that?’

I remember feeling that way for a while, myself.  But, I’ve been blessed to be a member of Saddleback Church for many years before my husband passed away in 2004.  Pastor Rick Warren eloquently paraphrases from the bible, that God’s ways are not the ways of the world.  I don’t think I really…

 yesterday  I was working in my yard and I hd the garage door open and as I stood in the garage this deep purple

butterfly was circling all around me 4 times it circled around my body 4 times and then it wnet and sat right next to my foot and its wings were fluttering back and forth I bend down and it still just sat there as if looking at me I wanted to share  I believe it was a sign form my sweet angel Bill